Could you date someone who doesn't read?

[flyinghigh450]

While I wish that my boyfriend would read more, he doesn't. He likes to read books about computers, computer software, hardware, servers, ethical hacking etc. He is very smart, and he is the kind of guy I need in my life, even though he doesn't read.

However, he likes to play video games, and I like to read. So we can enjoy each other's company while doing the thing we like the most. It works

[Kdor11]

Actually my boyfriend does not read...anything! He actually takes hand held games (mostly Blackjack) into the bathroom like other men take the newspaper!! It doesn't bother me at all that he doesn't read. This way we won't have 'heated' discussions about how we feel about what we've read!

[whiskeyguy]

While I wouldn't care much on a dating level if someone read, I really think I would prefer it in a long-term relationship. It just makes people more well-rounded and allows them to benefit from the insight and experiences of those who came before them.

I'd also dispute the practicality advantage of non-readers. I work in construction and the timber industry, and I read a lot... as do a lot of other people who work in those industries. I think it's a misconception that people who don't read have more practical intelligence... in reality they just have a massive demand for fixing things and don't really have time to read.

Essentially, that desire to read has to be there (even if the time isn't), because that displays the want to learn and experience new things, as well as the ability to use one's imagination.

I'm also slightly buzzed, so take all that with a grain of salt. I made myself one too many drinks three times while studying tonight.

[Fran]

While I wouldn't care much on a dating level if someone read, I really think I would prefer it in a long-term relationship. It just makes people more well-rounded and allows them to benefit from the insight and experiences of those who came before them.

I'd also dispute the practicality advantage of non-readers. I work in construction and the timber industry, and I read a lot... as do a lot of other people who work in those industries. I think it's a misconception that people who don't read have more practical intelligence... in reality they just have a massive demand for fixing things and don't really have time to read.

Essentially, that desire to read has to be there (even if the time isn't), because that displays the want to learn and experience new things, as well as the ability to use one's imagination.

I'm also slightly buzzed, so take all that with a grain of salt. I made myself one too many drinks three times while studying tonight.

I love that expression

[whiskeyguy]

While I wouldn't care much on a dating level if someone read, I really think I would prefer it in a long-term relationship. It just makes people more well-rounded and allows them to benefit from the insight and experiences of those who came before them.

I'd also dispute the practicality advantage of non-readers. I work in construction and the timber industry, and I read a lot... as do a lot of other people who work in those industries. I think it's a misconception that people who don't read have more practical intelligence... in reality they just have a massive demand for fixing things and don't really have time to read.

Essentially, that desire to read has to be there (even if the time isn't), because that displays the want to learn and experience new things, as well as the ability to use one's imagination.

I'm also slightly buzzed, so take all that with a grain of salt. I made myself one too many drinks three times while studying tonight.

I love that expression

Then we've obviously never dated...

[Mel Carriere]

It's a mistake to date fellow readers, because you'll only get into heated arguments about books, and these things can be as deadly as an Islamic jihad. Find someone who is naturally curious, but isn't necessarily a reader. At least not a heavy reader.

[Brihanylo]

I love to cuddle up with my partner, both of us reading. If he never reads then it wouldn't work especially since i am an author. That wouldn't make since lol..

[Simworm]

I think I could date someone who doesn't read as long as they were interesting and enjoyable enough company.

[Inspiro Assistant]

Well, I already do. I can tolerate it but it is much better if he is someone who reads but if not, that's totally fine. We will talk other things.

[EmmaRhiannon]

My Fiancée enjoys reading, however she's quite happy to go a while without reading a good book, whereas I've always got my head stuck in one.

But, I doubt it would make a difference to our relationship if she didn't read. Although, to be fair, when I first met her she didn't read at all really - but when she started asking questions about my books, she's started getting into them, LOL.

But, she plays the XBOX quite a lot, whilst I'm reading - so it works.

[SpontaniousWind]

Reading and writing are such a big part of my life, I dont think I'd really know myself if I had to go without them. I already find it really difficult that many of my friends and family dont share my passion for literature, I think it would have to be a must for someone I was dating. I mean I couldnt imagine not being able to share one of my greatest passions with someone I was intimate with.

[Suzyturnerbooks]

This is a great question! I married a man who doesn't read books... he never has. He's just not interested at all. He'd rather read a bike or car magazine.
It would be nice to be able to chat about a book sometimes, but it's not going to happen. It is a shame.
suzyturner (blogspot)

[Inspiro Assistant]

I'm with a man who didn't read books as well but I think we are all have our unique personalities.

This is a great question! I married a man who doesn't read books... he never has. He's just not interested at all. He'd rather read a bike or car magazine.
It would be nice to be able to chat about a book sometimes, but it's not going to happen. It is a shame.
suzyturner (blogspot)

[Suzyturnerbooks]

[quote="Inspiro Assistant"]I'm with a man who didn't read books as well but I think we are all have our unique personalities.

Yes I guess you're right... I think it would probably be weird now if he suddenly sat down to read a book!

[Inspiro Assistant]

Hahaha, we have the same fate!

I'm with a man who didn't read books as well but I think we are all have our unique personalities.

Yes I guess you're right... I think it would probably be weird now if he suddenly sat down to read a book!