Could you date someone who doesn't read?

Amberly Ayra · Post by **Amberly Ayra** » 11 Jul 2022, 10:41

Opposites attract. So if I read a lot, I'll probably end up liking someone revealing who prefers other activities. I don't see anything wrong with a person not reading for a hobby. There are all kinds of people and tastes, but I guess this depends on the opinion of each person.

Basetsana Malope · Post by **Basetsana Malope** » 12 Jul 2022, 18:03

I could never see myself dating someone who doesn't consider reading a novel even once in a year,first of all that makes me more attracted to you

Post by **Stephanie Cameron** » 16 Jul 2022, 04:30

I have married someone that does not read. He is more of a movie buff. It does not bother me that he does not have any interest in books. I have sisters that read so I can chat with them about books.

Taylor Hammerich · Post by **Taylor Hammerich** » 17 Jul 2022, 23:21

Yes, I could! It is my own personal hobby that I enjoy doing alone. They don't have to enjoy reading. However,I would love it if they did!

Oluchii · Post by **Oluchii** » 18 Jul 2022, 13:22

That is a big No ! I enjoy reading and I would want a partner that would enjoy it along with me. One of the things we could do together would be to curl up with a good book all day and discuss it after and share recommendations. So no,I wouldn't date someone that doesn't read

Post by **Nganyi Humphrey** » 19 Jul 2022, 07:27

I guess it is an individual choosing to do a particular activity. In the event I happen to love a person who does not read then I'll be open to dating the person provided she reciprocates my feelings accordingly.

Ateshi John · Post by **Ateshi John** » 19 Jul 2022, 12:04

To be very honest, it's a NO for me.
I enjoy reading and not just reading but sharing and discussing a story with someone who has read the same book in the past. This helps me to see the book in a new light and realise what lessons I missed or failed to learn. No one has a perfect view on any subject, discussing and having constructive arguments with a close friend over a subject you both enjoyed is nothing short of beautiful. So no, I can't date someone who doesn't read.

Achiever Tandoh · Post by **Achiever Tandoh** » 21 Jul 2022, 23:46

Of course I would. Everyone has their own likes and dislikes. I can't expect my beloved to have the same interests as I do. Reading is a hobby for me, it doesn't have to be for everyone. If they appreciate me fir who I am and don't interfere with my reading, everything should be fine.

Brittany Tatman · Post by **Brittany Tatman** » 23 Jul 2022, 20:40

As a long-time avid reader, I most definitely could. While long conversations over a cup of coffee in the morning is extremely attractive, if we end up disagreeing on some of my favorites, we're in for a hard road.
Joking aside, I could never limit myself to someone that reads, as many people as there are that do read for fun. Having different hobbies gives us the opportunity to teach each other about our favorite pastimes. Letting someone talk about their passions is just as fulfilling as being passionate about the same thing sometimes.

Victoryanthony4 · Post by **Victoryanthony4** » 24 Jul 2022, 13:39

Yes i can. As far as i am reading I will always get her informed.

Mistie Bickford · Post by **Mistie Bickford** » 26 Jul 2022, 10:50

I think I could, as long as they didn't have a problem with me reading when I wanted to.

bayleighadd · Post by **bayleighadd** » 27 Jul 2022, 13:29

I think I could date someone who doesn't read as long as they support me reading. A lot of people think that people who read are just boring people or they think reading is "gross". If I were to date someone I would need them to support who I am and that would be my reading as well.

Rinkal21 · Post by **Rinkal21** » 01 Aug 2022, 23:18

According to me, reading is a personal choice and is my passion to enhance my knowledge. Everyone has a personal choice and I would love to respect the opponent's choices as well. I would definitely date a person who doesn't read because I believe if someone loves me as an intense book reader then why can't I love someone who has different tastes? By the way, I am currently dating a guy who hates reading but buys me a lot many sources to read:)

Sydney Ash · Post by **Sydney Ash** » 03 Aug 2022, 11:30

I only read for my own enjoyment. It does not bother me if the person I am with reads or doesn't read. I doubt we would even have the same taste in books anyways.

04 Aug 2022, 03:15

I've been called a bookworm and a show off because of my tendency to read almost all the time; even while eating!!! It would be a real challenge dating someone who doesn't read seeing as I live for books, I live in books

. No I don't think it'd work for me.