Review of The Unfakeable Code®
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Review of The Unfakeable Code®
[Following is a volunteer review of "The Unfakeable Code®" by Tony Jeton Selimi.]
Tony Jeton Selimi's “The Unfakeable Code®" felt less like flipping through a typical self-help book and more like being let into a deep and heartfelt conversation, one you don’t want to end. Tony, with a warmth that’s both direct and compassionate, writes with the kind of honesty that makes you put the book down for a second just to reflect. And then you pick it right back up, because he has a way of making you feel like you are about to uncover something important about yourself.
One of the most compelling parts of Tony’s writing is how clearly it's been professionally edited and structured. There is a crispness to his words, a thoughtful progression in how ideas are introduced, expanded, and grounded in real-life stories. Nothing feels fluffed up or filler. The book moves with clarity and purpose, which is so refreshing in a genre that can sometimes be heavy on motivational fluff but light on actual substance.
What makes this book stand out is Tony’s uncanny ability to bridge complex ideas, like neuroplasticity, emotional intelligence, and spiritual authenticity, into practical reflections. For instance, when he talks about how the stories we repeat to ourselves shape our reality, he doesn’t just leave it at that. He breaks it down using his own experiences, like how he reprogrammed his thinking after being made redundant, not with blind positivity, but with gritty self-honesty and action. That story stuck with me because it wasn’t dressed up with clichés, it was real, raw, and incredibly relatable.
There is a beautiful metaphor Tony uses about masks, and how most of us wear them to protect ourselves, but in doing so, we often lose ourselves. He doesn’t wag a finger or tell you to rip them off instantly. Instead, he gently invites you to explore why they are there in the first place. It’s not about condemnation but about compassion. The idea that we can love even the “unlovable” parts of ourselves, as he puts it, is powerful. That kind of message only works when it’s authentic, and Tony lives it on every page.
One chapter that especially resonated with me was when Tony discusses being a “people pleaser.” Instead of telling us to just stop it, he unpacks how this behavior often comes from deeply rooted survival patterns. He speaks from personal and client experiences, illustrating how we can begin choosing actions aligned with our values, not just our fears. It felt like being handed a flashlight for the darker corners of the mind we all try to ignore.
What’s also striking is how Tony weaves science with spirit. He doesn’t present them as contradictory but as complementary. There are parts where he discusses the brain’s programming and how we inherit belief systems like outdated code, he even links it back to his teenage years with his first Commodore 64. It’s charming, relatable, and unexpectedly profound. Those personal touches make his teachings land with more impact because they come from lived wisdom, not just theory.
Every chapter feels like a checkpoint, an opportunity to pause and ask, “Am I living as who I really am, or just who I think I’m supposed to be?” And unlike many books in this genre, Tony doesn’t push a one-size-fits-all solution. He gives you tools, yes, but also the space to find your own answers. And he reminds you often that being unfakeable doesn’t mean being perfect. It means being present, being real, and being whole, even in your messiness.
In the end, The Unfakeable Code® is not just a book. It’s a mirror, a guide, and a quiet revolution all at once. Tony's voice is steady, reassuring, and just the right amount of challenging. He doesn’t promise ease, but he absolutely delivers transformation, for those willing to do the work. Without hesitation, I give this book a full 5 out of 5 stars. It’s a rare find, intelligent, heartfelt, and profoundly useful. A must-read for anyone looking to live more truthfully, lead more bravely, and love more fully.
******
The Unfakeable Code®
View: on Bookshelves | on Amazon | on iTunes
Tony Jeton Selimi's “The Unfakeable Code®" felt less like flipping through a typical self-help book and more like being let into a deep and heartfelt conversation, one you don’t want to end. Tony, with a warmth that’s both direct and compassionate, writes with the kind of honesty that makes you put the book down for a second just to reflect. And then you pick it right back up, because he has a way of making you feel like you are about to uncover something important about yourself.
One of the most compelling parts of Tony’s writing is how clearly it's been professionally edited and structured. There is a crispness to his words, a thoughtful progression in how ideas are introduced, expanded, and grounded in real-life stories. Nothing feels fluffed up or filler. The book moves with clarity and purpose, which is so refreshing in a genre that can sometimes be heavy on motivational fluff but light on actual substance.
What makes this book stand out is Tony’s uncanny ability to bridge complex ideas, like neuroplasticity, emotional intelligence, and spiritual authenticity, into practical reflections. For instance, when he talks about how the stories we repeat to ourselves shape our reality, he doesn’t just leave it at that. He breaks it down using his own experiences, like how he reprogrammed his thinking after being made redundant, not with blind positivity, but with gritty self-honesty and action. That story stuck with me because it wasn’t dressed up with clichés, it was real, raw, and incredibly relatable.
There is a beautiful metaphor Tony uses about masks, and how most of us wear them to protect ourselves, but in doing so, we often lose ourselves. He doesn’t wag a finger or tell you to rip them off instantly. Instead, he gently invites you to explore why they are there in the first place. It’s not about condemnation but about compassion. The idea that we can love even the “unlovable” parts of ourselves, as he puts it, is powerful. That kind of message only works when it’s authentic, and Tony lives it on every page.
One chapter that especially resonated with me was when Tony discusses being a “people pleaser.” Instead of telling us to just stop it, he unpacks how this behavior often comes from deeply rooted survival patterns. He speaks from personal and client experiences, illustrating how we can begin choosing actions aligned with our values, not just our fears. It felt like being handed a flashlight for the darker corners of the mind we all try to ignore.
What’s also striking is how Tony weaves science with spirit. He doesn’t present them as contradictory but as complementary. There are parts where he discusses the brain’s programming and how we inherit belief systems like outdated code, he even links it back to his teenage years with his first Commodore 64. It’s charming, relatable, and unexpectedly profound. Those personal touches make his teachings land with more impact because they come from lived wisdom, not just theory.
Every chapter feels like a checkpoint, an opportunity to pause and ask, “Am I living as who I really am, or just who I think I’m supposed to be?” And unlike many books in this genre, Tony doesn’t push a one-size-fits-all solution. He gives you tools, yes, but also the space to find your own answers. And he reminds you often that being unfakeable doesn’t mean being perfect. It means being present, being real, and being whole, even in your messiness.
In the end, The Unfakeable Code® is not just a book. It’s a mirror, a guide, and a quiet revolution all at once. Tony's voice is steady, reassuring, and just the right amount of challenging. He doesn’t promise ease, but he absolutely delivers transformation, for those willing to do the work. Without hesitation, I give this book a full 5 out of 5 stars. It’s a rare find, intelligent, heartfelt, and profoundly useful. A must-read for anyone looking to live more truthfully, lead more bravely, and love more fully.
******
The Unfakeable Code®
View: on Bookshelves | on Amazon | on iTunes
