Review of Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life
Posted: 06 Sep 2021, 18:16
[Following is a volunteer review of "Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life" by Thomas Jordan, Ph.D..]
Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life is an interesting book from Thomas Jordan. He extensively shared from his wealth of love experience. He stated clearly that grief evolves when love is absent. He was able to discover the vicious cycle of unhealthy love relationship. He explained that such event repeats and replicates itself; hence, it must be discontinued to enjoy a satisfying love life. The book is divided into three parts to address the unhealthy love life, the psychological love life and the unlearning method. He applied these three parts to his personal love life, and this has been the secret of his enviable love life. This book serves as a guide to healing one’s disappointing love life.
One of the positive aspects of this book is that it encourages a healthy love relationship. Love is what is inherent in a man whereas a relationship can be improved upon. Relationships can be learnt about. The love life formula explains, apart from getting involved in a relationship, the means of learning, either by observation or by instruction. More so, maintaining a healthy love relation will require that we identify the source of our psychological love life, we challenge its negative aspect and we replace every unhealthy psychological love life with the healthy ones, that is, consciously practising a healthy opposite relationship experience. In other words, we unlearn what we have learnt and re-learn a healthy psychological love life. More importantly, we should not try to change other people; rather, we should change ourselves first. When we change ourselves, others will soon imbibe a healthy love relationship due to the change they see in us. As much as it is possible, we should endeavour to remove every barrier that may want to hinder us from learning the unlearning method. The choice is ours to make if we will embrace a healthy love relationship or not.
This book was well written with some practical steps to take if we will embrace a healthy love relationship. In fact, I did not observe any negative aspect in it.
I rate this book 4 out of 4 stars because it was professionally written.
I recommend this book to those who need to heal from a disappointing love life. Reading this book will give them hope. If such people can practise the contents of this book, they will soon enjoy a healthy love life.
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Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life
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Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life is an interesting book from Thomas Jordan. He extensively shared from his wealth of love experience. He stated clearly that grief evolves when love is absent. He was able to discover the vicious cycle of unhealthy love relationship. He explained that such event repeats and replicates itself; hence, it must be discontinued to enjoy a satisfying love life. The book is divided into three parts to address the unhealthy love life, the psychological love life and the unlearning method. He applied these three parts to his personal love life, and this has been the secret of his enviable love life. This book serves as a guide to healing one’s disappointing love life.
One of the positive aspects of this book is that it encourages a healthy love relationship. Love is what is inherent in a man whereas a relationship can be improved upon. Relationships can be learnt about. The love life formula explains, apart from getting involved in a relationship, the means of learning, either by observation or by instruction. More so, maintaining a healthy love relation will require that we identify the source of our psychological love life, we challenge its negative aspect and we replace every unhealthy psychological love life with the healthy ones, that is, consciously practising a healthy opposite relationship experience. In other words, we unlearn what we have learnt and re-learn a healthy psychological love life. More importantly, we should not try to change other people; rather, we should change ourselves first. When we change ourselves, others will soon imbibe a healthy love relationship due to the change they see in us. As much as it is possible, we should endeavour to remove every barrier that may want to hinder us from learning the unlearning method. The choice is ours to make if we will embrace a healthy love relationship or not.
This book was well written with some practical steps to take if we will embrace a healthy love relationship. In fact, I did not observe any negative aspect in it.
I rate this book 4 out of 4 stars because it was professionally written.
I recommend this book to those who need to heal from a disappointing love life. Reading this book will give them hope. If such people can practise the contents of this book, they will soon enjoy a healthy love life.
******
Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life
View: on Bookshelves | on Amazon