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[Following is a volunteer review of "Don't Mind Me, I'm Just Having a Bad Life" by Lewis Kempfer.]

Growing up with a father who does not care about you is traumatizing, and it affects a child for the rest of their life. Don't Mind Me, I'm Just Having a Bad Life is a memoir by Lewis Kempfer. He recounts the events of his life from childhood.

Kempfer is abused by his father, Dennis, who later divorces his mother and leaves them broke. His mother gets into relationships with other men, and these men also abuse Kempfer. As he grows up, he becomes a homosexual, gets involved with nasty gangs, and becomes a drug addict. Additionally, he enjoys being ill-treated during intercourse. All his awful experiences result from depression and ill-treatment from his father.

The book contains four hundred and sixty-four pages. It is divided into three parts with subchapters in every part. The story is told from the first-person point of view. Every chapter has a title that hints at what the chapter entails.

I enjoyed several things about the book. Firstly, I loved how the author narrated his life from childhood to adulthood. He did not leave out any details. He stated both the sad and happy moments, although the happy moments were few. He also notes his mistakes and says why he was depressed and lonely. Secondly, I loved how the book had a pleasant flow and the events well collaborated. He starts telling his story from childhood and barely cuts out a year. His story began in 1970, and he narrates every important event until the year 2019.

Thirdly, I love the courage mastered by the author while writing his book. The book has many heartbreaking moments, and parental responsibility is currently depicted. I was in excruciating tears and bitterness while reading some parts. Emotionally, this book got me hooked up on it.

There is nothing I disliked about the book since it lived up to my expectations, and it was emotionally appealing to read. I, therefore, rate this book 4 out of 4 stars because it's interesting. I enjoyed the sad stories and learned several lessons, mostly about parenthood. The book seems to have been professionally edited since I did not notice any typos. I recommend the book to lovers of true-life stories since this is a memoir. Persons who have experienced abuse will both enjoy and dislike this book. It will be enjoyable for people who want to find inspiration from the author's sad stories. However, some abusive acts in the reader's life may be triggered after reading some scenes.

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I love this review. When I read this book, I was shocked by the cruelty depicted. You have outlined some very key aspects of the story especially parenting and self-harm. Sometimes Lewis reminded me of a wounded dog. I remember the times when he decided to stop being a quitter and took charge. Thank you for this insightful review.

The cover and title are extremely luring, and with your review, I find it impossible to skip this book. I can handle gruesome scenes, so I know I can handle its content. I was intrigued by your review and will be sure to read this book soon. Thank you for the intriguing review!

I forced myself to do away with expectations when it comes to book. Mostly because they never live up to those expectations, however this review makes me want to read this book and expect a lot whilst at that. Books about cruel childhood tend to open old wound, and it seems like Lewis's book will be no exception. I'm looking forward to reading this book, thanks for an excellent review.

I have heard about this book but never known how intriguing it could be until I came across your review. I will try it out with the optimism that it will be what I expected it to be. Nice review!

It makes me depressed to hear about little children being abused. I think I would find this book too sad. Thank you for a lovely review!

Ruth Frances A wrote: ↑14 May 2022, 13:41 I love this review. When I read this book, I was shocked by the cruelty depicted. You have outlined some very key aspects of the story especially parenting and self-harm. Sometimes Lewis reminded me of a wounded dog. I remember the times when he decided to stop being a quitter and took charge. Thank you for this insightful review.

Kempfer's life as remarkable lessons, and one of them is not to be a quitter, just as you have highlighted. I remember the time he almost died but decided to turn to God. This is the moment he realized that God is not fictional but someone he would dwell upon.

Prisallen wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 08:11 It makes me depressed to hear about little children being abused. I think I would find this book too sad. Thank you for a lovely review!

This is a sad book, and you will be overwhelmed by some events. The most heartbreaking is that he allows himself to be gang-raped and beaten up just because he wishes to die.

Pharmemma wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 08:01 I have heard about this book but never known how intriguing it could be until I came across your review. I will try it out with the optimism that it will be what I expected. Nice review!

I hope that the book is fulfilling to you. I very much enjoyed it and found it very enthusiastic.

Zwelihle_Myeni wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 06:28 I forced myself to do away with expectations when it comes to book. Mostly because they never live up to those expectations, however this review makes me want to read this book and expect a lot whilst at that. Books about cruel childhood tend to open old wound, and it seems like Lewis's book will be no exception. I'm looking forward to reading this book, thanks for an excellent review.

That is a very good theology, and I sometimes do the same thing when it comes to books. The effect this book had on me is not something I saw coming. I thought I was just going to read another book but it turned out to be one of that book that got me so emotional. I hope you enjoy this book too when you get to read it.

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thuriya albayaa wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 06:06 The cover and title are extremely luring, and with your review, I find it impossible to skip this book. I can handle gruesome scenes, so I know I can handle its content. I was intrigued by your review and will be sure to read this book soon. Thank you for the intriguing review!

The book cover is very symbolic of his depression and loneliness. More so, his inability to fit in the crowd. I am glad you found my review intriguing. I hope you enjoy the book when you read it.

I feel it's better not to be born than to be born to a set of parents that do not care! Nice review though.

Edit_or wrote: ↑15 May 2022, 12:34 I feel it's better not to be born than to be born to a set of parents that do not care! Nice review though.

You are right, but having bad Parents is not what matters. What matters is becoming a better person to your children than your parents were. What is your suggestions concerning this.

So sad, this book hit my emotions, parents need to wake up to their responsibilities. Great review.

I love the title of the book. It draws me to the book. I can tell the author has great humor. I know the book is on a sensitive topic and I can't wait to read ot and find out more. Great review.