Review of The Unfakeable Code®
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Review of The Unfakeable Code®
[Following is a volunteer review of "The Unfakeable Code®" by Tony Jeton Selimi.]
“The Unfakeable Code®" by Tony Jeton Selimi is like having a really deep, honest conversation with someone who’s been through a lot, figured out some solid truths about life, and now wants to pass on that wisdom. I didn’t expect a self-help book to blend psychology, life coaching, tech metaphors, and spiritual insight the way this one does, but it works, mostly.
From the very beginning, it’s clear the author, Tony, has walked the walk. He dives into real, sometimes painful experiences from his life and career that show where all this insight is coming from. That gave the book a lot of credibility for me. You can tell he has done the work, both personally and professionally, and now he’s handing you the tools so you can start your own journey.
One of the things I really appreciated was how the book challenges you to stop pretending in that quiet nudge you feel when someone sees right through your facades and gently calls you out on it. It’s not about being perfect or confident all the time but dropping the act and learning how to live in a way that feels real. That hit home for me. Like, how often do we catch ourselves trying to meet everyone’s expectations, just to feel exhausted and disconnected in the end?
Tony uses a lot of computer and programming metaphors to explain how our thoughts and emotions work. At times, that was super helpful. It made me think of my brain as something I could “upgrade” rather than being stuck with it as-is. That was empowering. But I’ll be honest, sometimes it got a bit too techy for my taste. I found myself wishing for a little more emotion and a little less code.
One of the standout parts for me was when the book talked about how our early beliefs, things we hear from our families, teachers, and even society, can quietly shape who we become. And unless we take the time to question those beliefs, we just run on autopilot, not really knowing why we feel anxious, burnt out, or just “off." That really got me reflecting on some of the scripts I have been unknowingly following.
Another thing I liked was how the book treats emotional struggles, not as problems to fix, but as doorways to understanding ourselves better. There is this whole part about how emotional reactions are kind of like messages. If we listen instead of fight them, we can actually grow from them. That shifted the way I view my own emotional highs and lows. It was refreshing to see that being sensitive wasn’t treated like a flaw.
It gets a 4 out of 5 star rating. What held it back from being a full five stars for me was that, at times, the tone slipped into being a bit too “coachy." You know the kind, “You MUST do this, or else.” It made me feel like I was being lectured, instead of guided. Also, I think some readers might find the book dense in places, especially if you are looking for something a bit more laid-back or story-driven.
That said, the insights are solid. There is heart, depth, and real transformation in these pages if you are ready to dig in. It’s not a surface-level read. It’s a manual for those who are tired of faking it and ready to live life on their own terms, flaws, fears, strengths, and all.
Would I recommend it? Pretty much. Especially if you are in a place in life where you’re asking big questions and want to feel more connected to who you really are. Just be ready to reflect, pause, and maybe get a little uncomfortable. That’s where the good stuff starts.
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The Unfakeable Code®
View: on Bookshelves | on Amazon | on iTunes
“The Unfakeable Code®" by Tony Jeton Selimi is like having a really deep, honest conversation with someone who’s been through a lot, figured out some solid truths about life, and now wants to pass on that wisdom. I didn’t expect a self-help book to blend psychology, life coaching, tech metaphors, and spiritual insight the way this one does, but it works, mostly.
From the very beginning, it’s clear the author, Tony, has walked the walk. He dives into real, sometimes painful experiences from his life and career that show where all this insight is coming from. That gave the book a lot of credibility for me. You can tell he has done the work, both personally and professionally, and now he’s handing you the tools so you can start your own journey.
One of the things I really appreciated was how the book challenges you to stop pretending in that quiet nudge you feel when someone sees right through your facades and gently calls you out on it. It’s not about being perfect or confident all the time but dropping the act and learning how to live in a way that feels real. That hit home for me. Like, how often do we catch ourselves trying to meet everyone’s expectations, just to feel exhausted and disconnected in the end?
Tony uses a lot of computer and programming metaphors to explain how our thoughts and emotions work. At times, that was super helpful. It made me think of my brain as something I could “upgrade” rather than being stuck with it as-is. That was empowering. But I’ll be honest, sometimes it got a bit too techy for my taste. I found myself wishing for a little more emotion and a little less code.
One of the standout parts for me was when the book talked about how our early beliefs, things we hear from our families, teachers, and even society, can quietly shape who we become. And unless we take the time to question those beliefs, we just run on autopilot, not really knowing why we feel anxious, burnt out, or just “off." That really got me reflecting on some of the scripts I have been unknowingly following.
Another thing I liked was how the book treats emotional struggles, not as problems to fix, but as doorways to understanding ourselves better. There is this whole part about how emotional reactions are kind of like messages. If we listen instead of fight them, we can actually grow from them. That shifted the way I view my own emotional highs and lows. It was refreshing to see that being sensitive wasn’t treated like a flaw.
It gets a 4 out of 5 star rating. What held it back from being a full five stars for me was that, at times, the tone slipped into being a bit too “coachy." You know the kind, “You MUST do this, or else.” It made me feel like I was being lectured, instead of guided. Also, I think some readers might find the book dense in places, especially if you are looking for something a bit more laid-back or story-driven.
That said, the insights are solid. There is heart, depth, and real transformation in these pages if you are ready to dig in. It’s not a surface-level read. It’s a manual for those who are tired of faking it and ready to live life on their own terms, flaws, fears, strengths, and all.
Would I recommend it? Pretty much. Especially if you are in a place in life where you’re asking big questions and want to feel more connected to who you really are. Just be ready to reflect, pause, and maybe get a little uncomfortable. That’s where the good stuff starts.
******
The Unfakeable Code®
View: on Bookshelves | on Amazon | on iTunes
