Are The Parent To Blame?
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Re: Are The Parent To Blame?
Absolutely, upbringing and temperament are responsible for the way children turn out.
The parents will carry some of the blame. Nevertheless, it is one thing to teach a child the right way and another for the child to run with it.
As for your last question, I don't think they did enough, but I know people who had worse parents, yet they turned out alright.
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I feel the parents didn't do their work well in the book.
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I think parenting is hard and that there is no right or wrong way to do it. But I do believe parents have a huge impact on their children's lives and can influence whether a child would grow up good or bad. I think the characters in the book did what they did in the ways they know how.Joseph_ngaruiya wrote: ↑04 Sep 2020, 09:45 Joey is always saying that the boys should be left alone to toughen up. Maureen is too busy working to take care of Kalayla, and Lena has had it with the boys. From their stories, what is your view on parenting? Is it the reason Kalayla and Lena's children grow the way they are? Would you blame parenting to the moral uprightness or bad character of a child?
Did Joey, Jamal, Maureen, and Lena nurture their children properly?
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Wesley Friday wrote: ↑21 Sep 2020, 06:47 As to whether or not parents raised their kids well will always depend on certain factors although society has an objective standard (vices engaged in) by which it will decide this. However, I would still maintain that parents have a direct effect on the moral upbringing of a child. This is due to the fact that the home is the first point of contact of a child for socialization.
dianaterrado wrote: ↑21 Sep 2020, 00:16I think parenting is hard and that there is no right or wrong way to do it. But I do believe parents have a huge impact on their children's lives and can influence whether a child would grow up good or bad. I think the characters in the book did what they did in the ways they know how.Joseph_ngaruiya wrote: ↑04 Sep 2020, 09:45 Joey is always saying that the boys should be left alone to toughen up. Maureen is too busy working to take care of Kalayla, and Lena has had it with the boys. From their stories, what is your view on parenting? Is it the reason Kalayla and Lena's children grow the way they are? Would you blame parenting to the moral uprightness or bad character of a child?
Did Joey, Jamal, Maureen, and Lena nurture their children properly?
Kiki-Ogo-Oluwa360 wrote: ↑20 Sep 2020, 19:16 Parents play a major role in the upbringing of a child especially before adolescence. Unity in child discipline by committed parents goes a long way in building the character of children,which did not come to play with Barzetti's parenting. Other factors come to play their roles in shaping life of an individual but what we make out of it lies on us especially as an adult.
Sure, parents have a direct effect on their children as they grow up. Positive parenting leads to higher esteem ad confidence in children. Mark always had a problem with his temper. He must have picked it up from Joey. Parenting is not easy, but the parents should be ready to balance their struggles with a positive outlook on things. Maureen works 100+ hours a week to make sure everything is running smoothly, but she loses her daughter to the streets in return. Parents also should be good examples to their children. The twins learned how to get away from trouble by doing unseemly negative things. They used their dad Joey as a good example.Fabulous mind wrote: ↑19 Sep 2020, 19:20 For me, it goes both ways. The parents has a major role in instilling good morals into the children. Speaking for my self, I know countless time I refused to be influenced negatively growing up as a youth. This is attributed to how I was raised up. So I think parents are to be blamed if they don't do their path. Also, the children are to be blamed if they decide to neglect these values while growing up.
I feel the parents didn't do their work well in the book.
However, as they become adults, there becomes a point when they can no longer solely blame their parents actions on how they act. They have to begin to take responsibility for their own actions, irregardless of what life threw their way.
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