Do you like how Ron has had multiple relationships? Why or why not?
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Re: Do you like how Ron has had multiple relationships? Why or why not?
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I hold the same opinion in that regard. This is how the author has decided to mould up the Ron' character and in a way it adorns the plot.
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Maybe that was coincidence, maybe not. Anyway he went from one relationship to another. The moral value of what he did is questionable. Yet it was an aspect that the author used for character developmentlavkathleen wrote: ↑03 Nov 2020, 03:19I agree with this, but I don't think he went into those relationships to "bring out the best in him", though. I think it was only coincidence that he met those women and eventually got attracted to them—that's all it is. I understand that you enjoyed the book less, though. The author needs to resort to something else to make the character more interesting.maiiii_maii wrote: ↑02 Nov 2020, 20:59 I don't think one needs multiple relationships in order to bring out the best in him.
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That is quite true. From those multiple relationships, rather than bringing best out from Ron, it is Ron who seems to be benefited that he did not ended up with a wrong partner with whom he cannot go forward in his careerMelexa wrote: ↑03 Nov 2020, 15:13 I don't think the intention of the writer was for those multiple relationships to bring out the best in Ron. The writer might have designed Ron's character that way to simply depict life's realities; not everyone finds true love at first instance. Sometimes, we go in and out of relationships before we finally find the one that completes us.
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Yes, it is normal to have multiple relationships, and it adds certain lessons to the life, and in the context of a fiction, it adds certain values and qualities for a character. So, maybe the author's idea was to bring the best out from Ron via these multiple relationshipshouligan19 wrote: ↑03 Nov 2020, 21:27 I did not feel that his relationships were too much or detracted from the character. It is pretty normal to have multiple relationships through life, and I thought that the way they added to his character was very interesting. I especially liked Cheryl and the lessons she taught him.
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Maybe the author wanted to portray Ron's character as an alpha male. Maybe that was the reason that all the relationships were initiated by ladies. Yet, they provided ggood support for his character developmentMarty_Kelly wrote: ↑04 Nov 2020, 05:58 I think the many relationships, in a way, contributes to Ron's character because all those relationships were initiated by the ladies. This reflects to some extent his lack of control/direction/focus in many aspects of his life.
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Ron being succeeded in many things that he did was a quality given for his character. So there is no reason for him to fail in his multiple relationships. And these relationships brings out his character for a great extentEnobongGold wrote: ↑04 Nov 2020, 18:23 I may not know exactly why he had multiple relationships, or if it is in his character to do so. I don't also want to judge him, but in his case here I would say he was extremely lucky because he became successful in these relationship. Another person that tries this may not be lucky, having multiple relationships is not a good thing so I don't subscribe to it.
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Agreed. One's success cannot be measured by his number of relationships. And yes, he had no self discipline and that was the reasin for his gambling addiction. Yet, as per the discussion, those relationships were key to bring his character to the surfaceEnobongGold wrote: ↑04 Nov 2020, 18:43 I would say Ron had no self discipline.
One being successful does not depend on the number of relationships one keeps
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I don't agree that it has not contributed for the character ddevelopment. What a character does in a book is his/her character and it applies here to Ron as well. So his multiple relationships brings out his character qualitiesArimart99 wrote: ↑04 Nov 2020, 21:12 I usually don't like it when a character has multiple relationships, especially when they bring no character growth, which is the case in this book, so it's no surprise that I didn't like it. However, I understand that having relationships is a natural thing in real-life, so why not bring it into a book too?