Do we all have a meaning for others?
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Re: Do we all have a meaning for others?
Exactly. We meet various people in our day to day life and from them we learn or we see a lot of things. In other words, as I see, we see some meaning in them for us. Maybe they are totally unaware of that, especially when it is about people like celebrities.Bridgetbruso99 wrote: ↑01 Apr 2021, 03:53 I think anyone that we encounter, good or bad, has meaning for us because it shapes us as people. If this happens to us, I think that we in turn do this for other people. You might not have the same experiences as others, but if you know someone who has had that experience that you didn't you can empathize more with a situation.
So, if this can happen in that way, why it cannot happen in other way around? Why cannot we have a meaning for others? Yes, we can. I think that we all have some meaning for the others
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Yes, this can be implemented to the concept of role model. Most of us look at somebody as our role model and try to be like them, because what we see in them has a huge meaning for us. There is a high chance that knowingly or unknowingly we have already become a role model of somebody. In that case, it is important to identify our qualities and work continuously to maintain and improve themPrecious Naiti wrote: ↑01 Apr 2021, 06:29 This quote is very accurate and we all indeed have meaning for other people. It is very possible that each of us are someone’s reason to live. At times, people look at out lives for motivation and we need to do a better job of protecting the people who need us. This can be done by continuously working on ourselves and trying to improve in all areas of our lives. We should all spread love. Pure and beautiful love.
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We, as humans, tend to be social beings. And sometimes even the slightest of social interactions can influence our thoughts and feelings.
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I agree to this. If we look back at our lives past experiences we discover the meaning of certain person's presence in our life. Similarly, we create a meaning for others although, differently for all.Bridgetbruso99 wrote: ↑01 Apr 2021, 03:53 I think anyone that we encounter, good or bad, has meaning for us because it shapes us as people. If this happens to us, I think that we in turn do this for other people. You might not have the same experiences as others, but if you know someone who has had that experience that you didn't you can empathize more with a situation.
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That is true. Some relationships are based on blood; some are on benefits; but some are purely based on the values of a certain person, or in other words, the personality. So for such relationships to prevail, continuous polishing of the qualities is required. If you let them go away, so will the the relationships. First of all you have to identify your qualities as the author has suggested and then have to work on keeping and improving them.lumenchristi wrote: ↑01 Apr 2021, 14:51 This quote, to me, is sound. The way others associate with me depends on my disposition to them and the kind of values I added to their lives. The same thing applies to me. The way I see others depends on how relevant they are to me. Now, knowing this will encourage us to preserve each of these meanings so it doesn't grow stale. Once we decide to let go of the meaning, then our relationship with them expires. This is how I interpreted the quote.
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That is a good way to put it. You can have various meanings throughout your life to various people. Persistent meanings will determine your personality. But your relatively small, yet important meanings also will have a great contribution when persuading people towards good courses. So, yes, each and every one have a meaning for others, and whether it is big or small, it is important when the large picture is consideredkridz21 wrote: ↑01 Apr 2021, 17:59 I like this quote, and I think it could be interpreted in a number of ways. I think we do have a meaning for all others, no matter how insignificant it may seem. It's the few that make up the many, if you know what I mean. For instance, if someone needed people to sign a petition and you decided to sign it, a friend may see that you signed it and decide to follow in your footsteps. Then it keeps going and going until the petition has all the signatures it needs. In this scenario, you had meaning, you contributed, and so did your friend and all the other people that followed in your footsteps. Therefore, everyone has a meaning for all others, no matter how small it is.
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Each person as an individual affects the lives of other people directly and indirectly. From the richest billionaire to the most humble of the earth's workers interact with each other even in the simple act of eating an apple.
The way in which we face this interaction speaks of us and our quality as human beings.
A protectionist attitude like that of the author of the novel is not very pleasant for me as it reminds me of the hypocritical logic in which the British empire was supported in its opportunist and pseudo-protectionist campaigns. Those same campaigns that were harmful to the economies of countries and kingdoms with ancient cultures, destroyed in the name of civilization and the authority of the English crown.
From my personal perspective as an individual. I am of the logic that if we are in a position of power or responsibility, we have a duty and an obligation to behave responsibly and morally.
That not only at the economic level but as individuals of a society. If I am a boss, it is my duty to train myself as a good boss and leader. Also its my duty to form a successor according to my ideas and oriented towards the general direction of my company, to ensure its evolution and growth over time. If I am the employee, it is my duty to work responsibly and train for the job assigned to me. Not being a robot, but performing my tasks efficiently and responsibly so that I am not a burden on my colleagues. Regardless of the position, treat people as people and not as disposable machines or a stepping stone towards my personal success.
For me, personal success comes ethically and through hard work. Since in the long run, those who arrive by shortcuts or tricks tend to collapse under their own weight and his incompetence.
It is true that our society is unjust and corrupt, but as individuals we behave as depot and corrupt beings, as we hope to improve as a society.
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Well said. We learn from various sources, and that is mostly from others. Since birth we are exposed to various people starting from our mother and we meet a large number of people for varying time periods. Each and every one of them leave their, as you aid, imprints on us. Most of the times we are not even aware of such a happening, yet it happens.Jennifer Aldo wrote: ↑01 Apr 2021, 20:12 I think that our very person, our experiences, wisdom, and worldview is a collection of different people, their ideas gleaned from conversations, from the classroom, from their books, from the social media, from our parents and people around us. All we are and all we know are imprints left by others. In that same vein, our daily interactions leave imprints in others too. We would also define others and as such, be very mindful and treat this task with utmost importance.
So why it cannot happen in the other way round? Can't we leave an imprint, or can't we be of any meaning to the others? Of course we can
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Hey Maddie! I agree we do have meaning for others, and doing the smallest thing, like smiling at people can have an impact. You may never know or someday someone might come back and tell you the impact you made on them. Since things are like a domino effect, we could even impact people that we have not encountered, kind of like the seven degrees of separation thing.Maddie Atkinson wrote: ↑05 Apr 2021, 15:50I think we all have meaning for all others. Even the smallest things can impact people. Like smiling at someone. For all we know, that person was having a bad day and your smile brightened their day. You'll probably never see them again, but you had an impact on them, even if temporarily. We all have meaning to each other, no matter how small.Sushan wrote: ↑01 Apr 2021, 01:15This is a quote from this book that caught my attention. What do you think about this statement? Does it mean that we all have a meaning for all the others, or we all have a meaning for some of the others? Do we all actually have a meaning for others? If so, what do you think about yourself? What is the meaning of yourself to others or the world? Was it difficult to recognize it? Are you working on to protect it?We all have meaning for other people, and we need to do a stronger job of protecting that and recognizing that.