I say we tend to need a lot of encouragement from others. I think it is great if you are able to surround yourself with people who will help you stay focused. We also need to know what our distractions are so that we can minimize them. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.Elendu Clement wrote: ↑25 May 2021, 04:49 I agree with the author. Most times all you need to fulfil your dreams is a little encouragement from your loved ones. If you also surround yourself with people who are focused on life, you get to be the best you can ever be
Discouragement and distraction are production killers, agree or disagree?
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Re: Discouragement and distraction are production killers, agree or disagree?
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I agree that that discouragement, no matter where it comes from does lead to hopelessness and feelings of uselessness. I agree we need to have good routines to help us minimize distractions. Not always easy to follow through, but necessary. Without them, we would be lost. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.Hogwarts03 wrote: ↑25 May 2021, 11:09 I wholeheartedly agree with this. Discouragement, whether self inflicted or provided by others, is very damaging to a person's morale and can lead to insecurity, self hatred and a negative feeling of hopelessness and uselessness. Distractions also fall in the same category. Without having a clear mindset and clear cut routines, distraction takes over which ultimately damages your ambition and zest to pursue a goal.
Surrounding yourself with like minded and positive people, while also creating positive habits, is a very good way of combating this.
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Yes, having close friends and family that support us certainly helps with our discouragment. I do agree that focusing on the ultimate goal does bring faster results. I think some people were probably more productive at home, but the majority probably did struggle. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.DeeFadzyie wrote: ↑25 May 2021, 12:29 I strongly agree with this notion. We are humans and need external validation at some point in our life. What our close friends and family say affects us because we expect our support from these groups. Focusing on the ultimate goal brings results faster and more efficiently provided there are little or no distractions. Even writers need a working space where they can work on their books more productively. Imagine the dent on productivity caused by working from home!
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Mostly the distractions come from materialistic things and world, but discouragement seeps mostly through humans. The source can be either of this but the end result is always a loss of production and work.
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I agree, most people do fail because of discouragement and distractions. It helps to not only encourage yourself but when you have others who are encouraging you in good habits as well. I think knowing your distractions help as well. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.Sushan wrote: ↑26 May 2021, 00:36 Definitely. In the time consuming processes, most of the people fail because either of discouragement or of distraction. So if one want to succeed, he/she should develop the habit to consistently encourage him/herself and also to keep the mind and soul focussed towards the target. That will be the only habit that one have to practice in order to succeed.
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I agree, regardless of where the distractions and discouragements come from, the end result is a loss of production and work. We need to know what are distractions are so we can minimize them and surround ourselves with people who are willing and able to motivate and encourage us. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.raj_nandani_poet wrote: ↑26 May 2021, 17:16 This is perfectly true. Distraction and discouragement, both have zero requirement in our life. Both have negative impact and fails to impart anything useful to either of the parties i.e. distracted as well as distracter.
Mostly the distractions come from materialistic things and world, but discouragement seeps mostly through humans. The source can be either of this but the end result is always a loss of production and work.
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I think that is a great way of looking at it. I had not thought of it in the way, but you are right. Some distractions and hobbies are a great way to restore our energy. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.Hiruni Hansika wrote: ↑26 May 2021, 22:38 I think this statement is mostly true. But some distraction is needed to keep us productive. If not stress can build up, or we can get discouraged in our dreams, and we won't have a way to release it. I see hobbies as a way of distraction that help us restore our energy.
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While positivity is good, one must also be careful not to enter the zone of delusion. Often times in the harshest criticisms there is a kernel of truth and one must be able to take the helpful criticisms and improve upon them while also keeping your positive mindset. Some people would just keep what their doing despite various people telling them their wrong because they've deluded themselves into thinking that their way is right and others are just trying to bring them down. Keep from being discouraged but also try to be realistic.cd20 wrote: ↑22 May 2021, 12:21Also true. We need to be able to get rid of the discouragement before it turns to negativity and completely throws us off track of our goals. It is hard to constantly have a positive mindset, but if you get in the practice of gratitude instead of negativity, it is a lot easier to realign your focus. Thanks again for sharing your thoughts.Ahbed Nadir wrote: ↑22 May 2021, 08:41Another thought I had on the matter is the importance of a good mindset. When one is continuously discouraged by his surroundings or events that happen it will be impossible for him or her to progress. One has to develop an attitude of positive thinking so as to always remain optimistic and hopeful about his or her future thus leading to greater focus and more productivity.cd20 wrote: ↑20 May 2021, 14:57 In chapter 21, Jeff states that "Discouragement and distraction are production killers." He goes on to say, "I have found that the proper mindset and appropriate life-giving habits must be integrated into my daily life rhythms if I want to succeed." Do you agree or disagree with this? Why?