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yomide wrote: 25 May 2021, 08:19
Ahbed Nadir wrote: 22 May 2021, 08:52
Bernard Udofia wrote: 22 May 2021, 03:38 I completely agree. When you allow people or situations to discourage or distract you, it kills productivity. To achieve success, we all need a system that encouraged us to push forward and that filters out all the negativity. It's like forming a new habit. To achieve success, we have to get to a point where the system we have formulated becomes muscle memory. It makes it much harder for negativity to encroach.
Yes, indeed. I read somewhere that it takes 50 days to break an old habit and 12 days to form a new one. This shows how hard it is to get rid of bad habits once they are formed and how easy it is to form a new good habit to replace the old one. This is something that every one needs to approach seriously. One must focus on developing habits that are in support of his goal and actively contribute to achieving his desires.
I don't think I completely agree with you. habits may not really be a key to productivity, I'd say it's more likely to be a distraction rather than a push to productivity. It doesn't matter whether or not it's a good habit or a bad one, or it is in tone with your mission. All that matters is that it would easily distract one from his course.
When I say good habits are a key to productivity, I'm referring to habits that align with your desired goal. For instance, if your goal is to be a footballer, a good habit to begin might be going for jogs every morning. This will contribute positively to your goal as it keeps you fits and ready to play at your peak. This is a example of a habit that begins to add benefit to your life.
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If one desires success in any endeavor or goal he sets his mind to, he should set his mind towards his goal with iron focus and strength and develop the habit of self confidence and encouragement. This is all he needs to succeed.
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Mys_Trea wrote: 22 May 2021, 10:07
cd20 wrote: 20 May 2021, 14:57 In chapter 21, Jeff states that "Discouragement and distraction are production killers." He goes on to say, "I have found that the proper mindset and appropriate life-giving habits must be integrated into my daily life rhythms if I want to succeed." Do you agree or disagree with this? Why?
I agree with this so much. The reality is that both these elements can come from so many different places, such as people, social media, and even oneself. I have in the past, come up with good ideas, only to talk myself out of executing them because of insecurity or procrastination. A well-meaning friend could think they are giving good advice, only to find out they were actually delaying you from reaching a life-changing dream. It is important to be conscientious of such, and have the correct mindset needed to achieve whatever you desire.
This struck me so hard. I once wanted to sign up for a singing competition with a prize of 5000$ but my friend talked me out of it by telling me I could fail and I would be embarrassed. This led to me dropping out of the competition and I have regretted it till this day. One should pursue your dreams wholeheartedly without any distractions or so called "advice" from friends.
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A constant negative attitude or habits can only lead to negative results! So constant disapproval or discouragement can shrink an individuals confidence to do anything. Hence, I think cultivating a positive attitude and good habits can build confidence and thereby can lead a way to success!
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I solemnly agree to the fact that discouragement and distraction are production killers.
It is generally agreed that a man is a product of who he surrounds himself with. It will be impossible for a man to bring out his best if he is surrounded with people that discourage him daily. Distraction is one of the major element that can easily shift the gaze of a man from his main goal to supplementary.

Discouragement and distraction are surely production killers.
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Ahbed Nadir wrote: 28 May 2021, 05:31
cd20 wrote: 22 May 2021, 12:21
Ahbed Nadir wrote: 22 May 2021, 08:41

Another thought I had on the matter is the importance of a good mindset. When one is continuously discouraged by his surroundings or events that happen it will be impossible for him or her to progress. One has to develop an attitude of positive thinking so as to always remain optimistic and hopeful about his or her future thus leading to greater focus and more productivity.
Also true. We need to be able to get rid of the discouragement before it turns to negativity and completely throws us off track of our goals. It is hard to constantly have a positive mindset, but if you get in the practice of gratitude instead of negativity, it is a lot easier to realign your focus. Thanks again for sharing your thoughts.
While positivity is good, one must also be careful not to enter the zone of delusion. Often times in the harshest criticisms there is a kernel of truth and one must be able to take the helpful criticisms and improve upon them while also keeping your positive mindset. Some people would just keep what their doing despite various people telling them their wrong because they've deluded themselves into thinking that their way is right and others are just trying to bring them down. Keep from being discouraged but also try to be realistic.
As with anything balance is good. I do not think by trying to have a positive mindset that you will enter a zone of delusion. I do agree that there is usually a nugget of truth in criticism. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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Bhuvana Subramanyam wrote: 28 May 2021, 11:26 A constant negative attitude or habits can only lead to negative results! So constant disapproval or discouragement can shrink an individuals confidence to do anything. Hence, I think cultivating a positive attitude and good habits can build confidence and thereby can lead a way to success!
I agree! Not only can a constant negative attitude or habit lead to negative results, but it also makes people not want to be around you. A positive attitude and good habits can build confidence and lead to success. Having a positive outlook also helps when a situation is negative. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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I tend to agree. Keeping your focus on what matters most goes a long way. If one gets too distracted, one loses momentum and wastes energy.
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It depends on how you define distraction. There are good distractions especially from temptation. This are healthy distractions like writing a journal, going for a walk and reading a book that may help on how we can deal with our day-to-day lives.
Discouragement depends on how individual take it. I may take it as a positive sign that next time, I will make a considerable progress. Overall, I think it depends your outlook in life if you consider discouragement and distraction are production killers.
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mmm17 wrote: 28 May 2021, 15:11 I tend to agree. Keeping your focus on what matters most goes a long way. If one gets too distracted, one loses momentum and wastes energy.
Yes! And losing your focus also leads to discouragement! It's a vicious cycle. And, not to mention, as you said, we also lose momentum and waste energy. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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Marife Solito wrote: 29 May 2021, 12:38 It depends on how you define distraction. There are good distractions especially from temptation. This are healthy distractions like writing a journal, going for a walk and reading a book that may help on how we can deal with our day-to-day lives.
Discouragement depends on how individual take it. I may take it as a positive sign that next time, I will make a considerable progress. Overall, I think it depends your outlook in life if you consider discouragement and distraction are production killers.
I had not thought of it that way, but I see your point. Some distractions can be good, especially if they are keeping you from something you shouldn't be doing. However, when you should be working and you are distracted then it is definitely a production killer. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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I totally agree, to achieve a certain level of productivity, we must try to eliminate distractions which can come in any form. Discouragements also reduces self confidence which is important to keep working energy up
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I agree on this, a hundred percent. It's unfortunate that I know these kinds of stuff but I can't apply it on my life. I know I should build a mindset through habits, but again, there's always distraction. And it's true that distraction and discouragement always brings me down
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BookBoyP wrote: 29 May 2021, 17:40 I totally agree, to achieve a certain level of productivity, we must try to eliminate distractions which can come in any form. Discouragements also reduces self confidence which is important to keep working energy up
So true, distractions do come in many forms and often when we least expect them or want them. It is good to limit distractions when you have a lot that needs to get done. I think it is great to add that discouragement reduces self-confidence, I agree with that 100% and am glad that you brought up that point. Once our self-confidence takes a hit it is hard to be productive and bounce back. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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Fae Liesl Enchantee wrote: 29 May 2021, 22:58 I agree on this, a hundred percent. It's unfortunate that I know these kinds of stuff but I can't apply it on my life. I know I should build a mindset through habits, but again, there's always distraction. And it's true that distraction and discouragement always brings me down
Well, they say admitting you have a problem is the first step in solving the problem :wink: I would figure out what is distracting you when you have something that needs to get done. If it is your phone, silence it, if it is TV, turn it off, people, try to get by yourself. It is hard to work your way from the distractions and discouragement is a pit that is hard to get out of. I think it helps to remember the original "why" you are doing something, sometimes, despite the discouragement you are able to realign your focus. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
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