Official Review: The Reluctant Refugee by George M Decsy

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The reluctant refugee such an intriguing name for a book, George moves to United kingdom but a call from his dad who he has never met and he's dying making me have numerous questions and making me so interested in reading to figure out the mystery that is awaiting George back in Hungary
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Given that my life partner is adopted, I believe that a father is the one who chooses to stand behind their child, help them when they are down, and provide support when their child needs it. Where people end up in life is determined by their own choices. Thanks for the review!
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The book seems interesting but I'm not a fan of biographies and memoirs. Besides "the talk of abuse, war, death" is definitely not my cup of tea. Still I'm sure the book will find its reader. Congratulations on becoming BOTD!
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"The Reluctant Refugee" explores the intricate relationships between identity and belonging. The story resonates with unvarnished honesty as he wrestles with fatherhood and his past in Hungary. Congrats on BOTD.
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Post by Gayatri Tripathi »

Thank you for your heartfelt and insightful review of "The Reluctant Refugee" by George M. Decsy. Your reflections on the profound questions of home, fatherhood, and the impact of our past on shaping our present resonated deeply. It's evident that the author's vulnerability and honesty in sharing his personal journey made a significant impression on you.

Your observation about the limited coverage of George's adult life and the selection of memories to share is noted, and it's great that these didn't affect your overall positive experience. Your trigger warnings provide valuable context for potential readers.

A perfect rating of four out of four stars, along with praise for the absence of grammatical errors and marvelous editing, speaks volumes about the book's quality and emotional impact. Your endorsement, especially for readers of historical fiction, memoirs, and biographies, adds a personal touch to the recommendation. Thanks for sharing your perspective on this emotional and well-crafted memoir.
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Thanks for the free copy. I can't wait to check out George's life journey, including family ties. I am certain there is something to learn at the end of the narration. I am also confident because of the perfect rating. Congrats!
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Kanchan Sharma wrote: 14 May 2021, 06:30 I haven't read a family book from long time. I would definitely love to read the book.
I hope you enjoy it.
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Thanks for sharing your insights on the book.Your detailed review painted a vivid picture of George M. Decsy's memoir. While I haven't read the book yet, your thoughtful review has definitely put it on my to-read list!
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It's great that George had a stepfather that could step in and fill his father's shoes. Growing up as an immigrant couldn't have been easy. Unfortunately, I don't read nonfiction, so I'll skip this one.
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What an incredible journey captured in "The Reluctant Refugee" by George M Decsy! A true-life odyssey from innocence to manhood during the 1956 Hungarian revolution.
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Post by Nemanja Jankovic »

"The Reluctant Refugee" by George M. Decsy is the author's autobiography. The book begins in 1989, when the author receives news from Hungary that his biological father is dying. The book focuses on the author's childhood. The book is professionally edited.
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Post by Pranav Dewangan »

I like the memoir books that allow me to go deep into the author's life and understand where he is coming from. If the book is anything like you mentioned in your review like raw. honest and vulnerable while also exploring childhood years, I would surely add to my reading list.
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Thank you for your thoughtful review on, "The Reluctant Refugee" by George M Decsy. This book sounds like an interesting read because it is about a boy who finds out his biological father is on his deathbed and would like to see him before he dies. It strikes me as a difficult decision to make as a young boy who has never seen this man before and has grown up with a stepfather. I am going to read this story to find out how George manages to cope with his feelings while making this decision and then how he feels when he does go to see his estranged father. There is only one chapter with him arriving in Hungary and meeting with his father. I’m also curious how the author chooses which memories to share with us. Congratulations to the author for BOTD.
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I appreciate your analysis of the memoir's core theme, as exemplified by the quote you chose about the meanings of "home" and "father." Discussing how the book prompts reflection on the role of past experiences in shaping us is insightful.
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Might be interesting, but at the same time quite ordinary. After all, how many people, even nowadays, experience similar difficulties by being forced into assimilating into a new society for varied reasons? Thanks for gifting it, I'll shelve and read it when the right mood strikes me. Congrats with BOTD!
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