Official Review: I Hate the Man I Love by Joan e childs

[shannonkate8]

[Following is an official OnlineBookClub.org review of "I Hate the Man I Love" by Joan e childs.]

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4 out of 4 stars

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I didn't pick up I Hate the Man I Love by Joan E. Childs because I hate my husband. In fact, I quite adore him. However, every relationship has its issues and I was interested to see what the author had to say about relationship counseling. Perhaps there was something that could improve my relationship. On top of this, I find psychology fascinating and am always willing to get my hands on more books of this nature.

I Hate the Man I Love by Joan E. Childs is a relationship counseling book geared toward women, but don't let that deter you if you are male. This book covers a wide variety of information that can apply to couples and the opposite sex. The author starts with examples of what she sees regularly between couples who come to her for assistance. Some situations are clearly worse than others, such as addiction issues and abuse, but others are relatable to the more general population. Many of us struggle with fear, acceptance, repeating past mistakes, becoming our parents, and communication, amongst other things, and these are discussed throughout the book. Joan E. Childs walks readers through these common issues with examples and provides lessons on how to combat these different subjects (i.e. being present, active listening, and accepting change).

I cannot possibly cover everything in this review that the author discussed. It was a remarkably comprehensive book on relationships and counseling. For those who think they don't need this book, I can assure you that you will find something in it to improve your relationship or just learn about yourself. Joan E. Childs dives in deep with the nature versus nurture argument, understanding the differences in men and women, and what influences your behaviors. All of this is interspersed with true stories and motivational quotes that I found interesting and educational.

If I'm truly honest, I could not find anything I disliked about the book. The author was witty and made me giggle at times, which provided a lightness that the book and topic needed. The flow of the book was nice and it didn't seem to drone on and on like a lecture on psychology and relationships. I found much of the information helpful and it was reassuring to see that so many people suffer similar maladies and concerns. The book was supportive of men and women but, as a woman, provides a deeper insight into our minds and feelings.

If there was a potential concern, it would be that sometimes the way the author talks can be misconstrued as male-bashing. The author discusses a trend of abuse suffered by women and uses quotes of what clients have said to her that can be a bit much to read. Personally, I did not find it off-putting as the author was bringing this to the reader's attention as it related to the sphere of counseling.

Overall, I have to give this book a 4 out of 4 stars. This is based on the above points, the positive attitude throughout the book, the information and experience presented by the author, and the lack of significant grammatical errors. I would truly recommend this book to many people, specifically those interested in self-help, counseling, and psychology. In general, however, I think it applies to a wide base of people and readers can learn something new.

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[kljrox]

This sounds like an amazing book on relationships. I am going to take your word that everyone can find something in this book that will help in their relationship or just self discovery. So on my want to read list it goes. Thank you for the opportunity to learn about this book and thanks for your wonderful review.

[Beatrice Grant]

I am very interested in this book and am gonna use every words in it

[Joseph_ngaruiya]

I like the way the book is structured, and the title is also catchy. Thank you for the review.

[Elvis Best]

This book seems to be highly relevant to women, especially those in abusive relationship. Thank you for the insightful review.

[Chinelookeke]

It would really go a long way in helping people with relationship issues. Everything was explained properly and with life examples. Thanks for the review.

[Zeyna]

It's a good story about the relationship.

[Wildflowertheorist]

The first line of your review roped me into reading it. The review was thoroughly engaging. Thanks for writing such a wonderful review.

[GiselleBengochea]

Congratulations on an excellent review! You did an exceptional job in the promotion of this book! God bless you!

[Topsey]

Great review, it is very informative and compelling. I don’t think I’ll give this one a read but it sounds like a good book.

[shannonkate8]

This sounds like an amazing book on relationships. I am going to take your word that everyone can find something in this book that will help in their relationship or just self discovery. So on my want to read list it goes. Thank you for the opportunity to learn about this book and thanks for your wonderful review.

I think it definitely has something that can apply to everyone, if you're willing to be open to self help books. Hope you get to read it!

[shannonkate8]

I like the way the book is structured, and the title is also catchy. Thank you for the review.

The title is definitely catchy! It was sure part of the reason I chose to read it. But once I got into it, I realized it was really done well and helpful. Thanks for the comment!

[shannonkate8]

This book seems to be highly relevant to women, especially those in abusive relationship. Thank you for the insightful review.

I think women in difficult or rough relationships (regardless if it is abusive) could benefit from this. Theres a lot of help here to get through hard times.

[shannonkate8]

The first line of your review roped me into reading it. The review was thoroughly engaging. Thanks for writing such a wonderful review.

Thanks! It's great to hear when a review turns out how you hoped. Thanks for the positivity!

[joenduga12]

People in general will be drawn to this book since it touches the core aspect of life–marriage. Great moral lessons about relationships just waiting to be discovered in this book. Nice review.