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[Following is an official OnlineBookClub.org review of "Surviving Chaos" by Harold Phifer.]

Surviving Chaos, by Harold Phifer, follows the author's extraordinary life experiences. Growing up in a dysfunctional family with a sick mother and without a father, he was subjected to emotional and physical abuse. However, he never lost control of his life. From childhood through adulthood, he tried to hold his head up high amid poverty, abandonment, bullying, and racial discrimination.

Trying to get healed from the humiliation and pain he suffered due to his family of origin, marriage, and past jobs, Harold took a job as an international contractor in Afghanistan, where he survived an attack. Afterwards, he went to Thailand and started living in carefree way, "hiding from life." Fortunately, one day, at a beach bar, he encountered an older man, who coerced him into unveiling his life journey. After telling the stranger the story of his life, Harold felt a sense of relief and was stimulated to go back to his job in Afghanistan.

Surviving Chaos is light and gripping. It's jam-packed with intriguing events that happened during the author's childhood, teenagehood, and adult life. Narrating his stories back and forth, Harold tells about his adventures, school life, bullies, friends, neighborhood, and family, particularly his mother's schizophrenic episodes and constant rants. Though I felt for her, I loved reading the parts of the book involving her.

The book is hilarious and unputdownable. Containing 249 pages, it's a quick read. I commend the author for his ability to relate such a heartbreaking story in a funny way. According to him, he used humor to sustain himself throughout the story and his life because logic didn't apply. I like his straightforward and suspenseful writing style, which makes the book seem more like a novel than a memoir.

There's nothing I don't like about the book except that, at the beginning, I just couldn't accept certain things the author said he and his brothers did. For example, as a child, during a confrontation between his mother and a teacher, his 3-year-old younger brother "smirked back at him." Maybe, some 3-year-olds can do that. Anyway, it's the author's story, and he told it in an engrossing manner.

Finally, I rate Surviving Chaos 4 out of 4 stars. It doesn't deserve a lower rating since it's well written and amusing. Moreover, it was professionally edited; I noticed only a couple of typos. Though readers who don't enjoy non-fiction books may not want to read it, it'll be a worthwhile read for those who like life-changing memoirs.

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I like that the author injects humor into his memoir, which makes it palatable despite his struggles. This is a story of hope that will inspire people who have hit rock bottom.

I am looking forward to read a book having humour. Its a very good review. Thanks for your hardwork.

This story that gives hope to the hopeless, guidance and perseverance, never to give up, no matter what life throws at us, weldone to the author. Great review

It’s so important to stay positive in the face of such rough events in life and it sounds like that’s exactly what this author did. Thanks for the great review!

Thank you all for stopping by, as well as for your nice comments.

It is warmly wholesome for me, knowing that he still has the ability to smile and be humorous even if life gets him down. I hope this book would give out hope and comfort to those people who are struggling with life. Thanks for the review!

Thanks for your review. Despite the hardships in his life, it seems Harold is an optimistic person who uses humor to lighten his heart.

I really like the story , it's a good guidance and perseverance .And never give up for what you are doing in life.

A book that is hilarious and light is needed when one need to have a good time. I understand the one aspect that you didn't agree with the author and the brother did when they were younger.

It's a touching story that would definitely inspire people going through trials and tribulations to pick up the mantle and wall again. Surviving chaos is never an easy thing. Thank you for the review.

Thank you for the great review, no matter how harsh the circumstances in this life are
You have to face it and move forward, not give up. Howard used humor in his life so he could move on.

This is an inspirational non-fiction memoir highlighting a difficult childhood, war, forgetfulness, memory, and uncovering one`s journey. The book is temporarily free on Amazon Kindle and has a well-written OnlineBookClub review. Congrats @RnRFreePress on the BOTD selection.

I love non-fiction books, and I love that this book is jam-packed with intriguing events that happened during the author’s childhood and into his adult life. The fact that it is told in an amusing light-hearted way is even better and this one is definitely going on my bookshelf.

Well... I think a 3 yo is capable of smirking... I've seen a handful whenever I visit day care institutions. It's also good that the book does have humor.