Review of Being Mother
Posted: 22 Apr 2023, 05:27
[Following is an official OnlineBookClub.org review of "Being Mother" by Muriel sideris.]
As Oprah Winfrey once said, "Biology is the least of what makes someone a mother." This statement is so true when you think of all the people who have had a hand in raising you. Other than your biological mother, it could have been a sibling, a single dad, a stepmother, a grandmother, or an aunt. So, by definition, a mother is anyone who plays multiple roles, including a caregiver, a nurse, a counselor, a cab driver, a chef, a teacher, etc. She is the epitome of sacrifice and unbounded love. If not regulated, these traits could occasionally prove harmful to her. Being Mother is a book that promotes self-love and self-care without being selfish.
The author, Muriel M. Sideris, shared a remarkably compelling thought through this book. She points out how many of us wish to spread love in the world, but we forget that its purest form comes from loving oneself. Being a mother can be an extremely demanding and time-consuming job. Despite that, mothers need to take time for themselves without feeling guilty or selfish. Remember, you will be a role model for your children for most of their lives. You must demonstrate to them that you value and cherish who you are. They will eventually follow in your footsteps and develop greater self-confidence.
This book was an invaluable source of insightful wisdom and practical suggestions. The author begins the book with the well-known Serenity Prayer, which has helped countless people and is also one of my favorites. She further says that to achieve self-love, you must surround yourself with great individuals who do not undermine your self-worth. You do not need anyone's approval. Instead of focusing on what people expect of you, solely concentrate on what you desire. In addition to that, I respected how the author discourages complimenting children for their superficial attributes. She says one should instead praise them for their inherent virtues. In time, this will help them comprehend what true bliss is.
Apart from all this, there were many other tools the author shared. Coming from a mother of five, I believe the readers will appreciate them all. Initially, I was drawn to this book by the adorable and blissful faces on the cover. They radiated genuine affection and warmth. The only thing I did not enjoy about the book was how the author kept repeating similar thoughts. Her justification was that she wanted to emphasize the importance of those points. I decided not to deduct a star because it wasn't very bothersome. Despite the few grammatical mistakes I discovered, I genuinely liked the book. Hence, I rate the book 5 out of 5 stars.
I recommend this book to any individual who is raising a child. For readers struggling with motherhood, this book will demonstrate that you are not alone, that it is ok to take some time for yourself, and that self-love and being a mother can go hand in hand. When you, as a mother, are happy, confident, and aware of your value, your children naturally become self-conscious and appreciative adults. So, go on and grab a copy of this lovely book.
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Being Mother
View: on Bookshelves | on Amazon
As Oprah Winfrey once said, "Biology is the least of what makes someone a mother." This statement is so true when you think of all the people who have had a hand in raising you. Other than your biological mother, it could have been a sibling, a single dad, a stepmother, a grandmother, or an aunt. So, by definition, a mother is anyone who plays multiple roles, including a caregiver, a nurse, a counselor, a cab driver, a chef, a teacher, etc. She is the epitome of sacrifice and unbounded love. If not regulated, these traits could occasionally prove harmful to her. Being Mother is a book that promotes self-love and self-care without being selfish.
The author, Muriel M. Sideris, shared a remarkably compelling thought through this book. She points out how many of us wish to spread love in the world, but we forget that its purest form comes from loving oneself. Being a mother can be an extremely demanding and time-consuming job. Despite that, mothers need to take time for themselves without feeling guilty or selfish. Remember, you will be a role model for your children for most of their lives. You must demonstrate to them that you value and cherish who you are. They will eventually follow in your footsteps and develop greater self-confidence.
This book was an invaluable source of insightful wisdom and practical suggestions. The author begins the book with the well-known Serenity Prayer, which has helped countless people and is also one of my favorites. She further says that to achieve self-love, you must surround yourself with great individuals who do not undermine your self-worth. You do not need anyone's approval. Instead of focusing on what people expect of you, solely concentrate on what you desire. In addition to that, I respected how the author discourages complimenting children for their superficial attributes. She says one should instead praise them for their inherent virtues. In time, this will help them comprehend what true bliss is.
Apart from all this, there were many other tools the author shared. Coming from a mother of five, I believe the readers will appreciate them all. Initially, I was drawn to this book by the adorable and blissful faces on the cover. They radiated genuine affection and warmth. The only thing I did not enjoy about the book was how the author kept repeating similar thoughts. Her justification was that she wanted to emphasize the importance of those points. I decided not to deduct a star because it wasn't very bothersome. Despite the few grammatical mistakes I discovered, I genuinely liked the book. Hence, I rate the book 5 out of 5 stars.
I recommend this book to any individual who is raising a child. For readers struggling with motherhood, this book will demonstrate that you are not alone, that it is ok to take some time for yourself, and that self-love and being a mother can go hand in hand. When you, as a mother, are happy, confident, and aware of your value, your children naturally become self-conscious and appreciative adults. So, go on and grab a copy of this lovely book.
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Being Mother
View: on Bookshelves | on Amazon
