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Review of Finding Closure
Posted: 09 Apr 2024, 06:01
by Tejas Koli
[Following is an official OnlineBookClub.org review of "Finding Closure" by Rosie Norman-Neubauer.]
5 out of 5 stars
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Finding Closure" offers a raw and compelling memoir of self-discovery as Rosie Norman-Neubauer embarks on a journey to uncover her origins and reunite with her birth family after being adopted as an infant. Through vivid prose, Norman-Neubauer takes the reader on her emotional rollercoaster as she wrestles with questions of identity that have lingered since childhood.
Adopted at birth, Norman-Neubauer was raised in a stable middle-class home in Berkhamsted, England. While thankful for the opportunities provided, she never fully felt at home with her adoptive family and different flocks. Her olive skin tone and occasional rebellious spirit set her apart from her buttoned-up relatives. Deeper questions nag at her: who were her birth parents? What qualities did she inherit from them? When the chance arises to research her ancestry after 55 years, Norman-Neubauer grabs it with nervous anticipation. Her digital sleuthing leads her to make contact with long-lost relatives, launching a courageous quest for closure.
The editing of the book is well done; there are no grammatical errors, which gives a seamless read. In recalling her journey with raw honesty, Norman-Neubauer invites readers into her inner turmoil. We experience the excitement and trepidation of initial contact attempts as well as the complex emotions upon meeting family. While reconnection brings relief, it also shatters illusions and idealizations built up over decades. Reality does not always live up to hopes and expectations. There are no negative points to mention. For adoptees and their families, "
Finding Closure" offers solace in shared experiences of displacement, longing, and the complexity of forging new bonds after broken ones. Ultimately, it celebrates the resilience of the human spirit and our ability to create chosen families and identities. Norman-Neubauer's memoir shows that through openness and understanding, even the most fractured families can find healing. There are no negative points to mention.
Emotively told yet grounded, "
Finding Closure" brings an intensely personal story to a wide audience. It will resonate strongly with adoptees and their loved ones while educating others about the lifelong impact of separation. Norman-Neubauer pens an inspirational tale of reclaiming one's narrative and finding the strength to let go of lingering what-ifs. I would rate it
5 out of 5.
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Finding Closure
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Re: Review of Finding Closure
Posted: 04 Jun 2024, 06:26
by Leona Rodrigues
Tejas Koli wrote: ↑09 Apr 2024, 06:01
[Following is an official OnlineBookClub.org review of "Finding Closure" by Rosie Norman-Neubauer.]
5 out of 5 stars
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"
Finding Closure" offers a raw and compelling memoir of self-discovery as Rosie Norman-Neubauer embarks on a journey to uncover her origins and reunite with her birth family after being adopted as an infant. Through vivid prose, Norman-Neubauer takes the reader on her emotional rollercoaster as she wrestles with questions of identity that have lingered since childhood.
Adopted at birth, Norman-Neubauer was raised in a stable middle-class home in Berkhamsted, England. While thankful for the opportunities provided, she never fully felt at home with her adoptive family and different flocks. Her olive skin tone and occasional rebellious spirit set her apart from her buttoned-up relatives. Deeper questions nag at her: who were her birth parents? What qualities did she inherit from them? When the chance arises to research her ancestry after 55 years, Norman-Neubauer grabs it with nervous anticipation. Her digital sleuthing leads her to make contact with long-lost relatives, launching a courageous quest for closure.
The editing of the book is well done; there are no grammatical errors, which gives a seamless read. In recalling her journey with raw honesty, Norman-Neubauer invites readers into her inner turmoil. We experience the excitement and trepidation of initial contact attempts as well as the complex emotions upon meeting family. While reconnection brings relief, it also shatters illusions and idealizations built up over decades. Reality does not always live up to hopes and expectations. There are no negative points to mention. For adoptees and their families, "
Finding Closure" offers solace in shared experiences of displacement, longing, and the complexity of forging new bonds after broken ones. Ultimately, it celebrates the resilience of the human spirit and our ability to create chosen families and identities. Norman-Neubauer's memoir shows that through openness and understanding, even the most fractured families can find healing. There are no negative points to mention.
Emotively told yet grounded, "
Finding Closure" brings an intensely personal story to a wide audience. It will resonate strongly with adoptees and their loved ones while educating others about the lifelong impact of separation. Norman-Neubauer pens an inspirational tale of reclaiming one's narrative and finding the strength to let go of lingering what-ifs. I would rate it
5 out of 5.
******
Finding Closure
View:
on Bookshelves |
on Amazon
What a great review! Indeed, the book sounds interesting
Re: Review of Finding Closure
Posted: 09 Nov 2024, 09:47
by Rebecca De Figueiredo
Thank you, reviewer, for giving me such a well balanced view of what to expect in this book. The book seems well written and personable, with Rosie opening up her heart to the reader.
Re: Review of Finding Closure
Posted: 09 Nov 2024, 10:10
by Jorge Leon Salazar
In this autobiography of self-discovery, the author presents her journey to discover her origins and reunite with her biological family after being adopted as a baby. I think facing a new family should produce complex emotions. It seems like a very emotional read.
Re: Review of Finding Closure
Posted: 09 Nov 2024, 10:24
by Monique Grant 1
This review was well thought out and very informative. It makes the seems like a interesting read. It was also very articulately done.
Re: Review of Finding Closure
Posted: 09 Nov 2024, 10:28
by Sushan Ekanayake
"Finding Closure" by Rosie Norman-Neubauer is a heartfelt memoir of self-discovery, identity, and reconnection. Adopted at birth, Norman-Neubauer shares her journey to find her birth family and answers to her lifelong questions. A must-read for adoptees, families, and anyone who’s ever searched for their roots. Congratulations on being BOTD!
Re: Review of Finding Closure
Posted: 09 Nov 2024, 10:29
by Mfoniso Bassey
A book that deeply emphasizes that blood ties are rarely ignored, one that gives some sort of direction to people thinking's about reconnecting with their birth family, this is something that should be encouraged. Generally a good read
Re: Review of Finding Closure
Posted: 09 Nov 2024, 10:30
by Mbali Khumalo 5
A beautiful read it is here we get I go the Depth of understanding self discovery. The Author shows how Self-discovery is such a transformative journey that unlocks one's true potential, fostering profound growth and liberation. Highlighting introspection and exploration of how as individuals we uncover our values, passions, and strengths. Her discovery empowers personal accountability, boosts confidence, and enhances emotional intelligence, leading to more authentic relationships and decision-making. By embracing her unique identity, in a way that individuals break free from societal expectations and limitations, cultivating resilience, creativity, and fulfillment. Ultimately, self-discovery illuminates the path to becoming the best version of oneself
Re: Review of Finding Closure
Posted: 09 Nov 2024, 10:34
by Seetha E
A 55-year-long wait must have been a tremendous burden on the heart to carry around, especially during the formative years. This emotional read will interest many in comparable situations. Thank you for your detailed review.
Re: Review of Finding Closure
Posted: 09 Nov 2024, 10:37
by Leen282
The author is courageous to share her personal story with the public. It must be hard to admit to the questions in her head when being brought up in a loving family. I can only imagine many adopted children feel the same, parents doing their best to give a child a good life, and yet wanting to find out about the birth family. While memoirs are not my preferred genre, this book speaks to me in the hope of better understanding adopted children who are struggling with the same questions.
Re: Review of Finding Closure
Posted: 09 Nov 2024, 10:38
by Siyabonga Hadebe
The editing of the book is well done; there are no grammatical errors, which gives a seamless read
Re: Review of Finding Closure
Posted: 09 Nov 2024, 10:41
by María Andrea Fernández Sepúlveda
I can't imagine the mental turmoil it must cause to be grateful to your adoptive parents while still, understandably, wanting to know your biological ones. It must be really hard on both sets of parents, too. What a compelling memoir!
Re: Review of Finding Closure
Posted: 09 Nov 2024, 11:00
by Erica Kent
Finding Closure" by Rosie Norman-Neubauer is an amazingly explained, well written story of adoption. Being I have two children in foster care this story hit me right in my heart. The simple questions the author asks herself are truly throughout questions, asked when it comes to children wanting to know why and how adoption may or may not have changed them. It allows readers to understand adoption without being taught the reader is able to relate on a deeper level of understanding. This book is an overall great read and great educator. I would highly recommend this book to all readers.
Re: Review of Finding Closure
Posted: 09 Nov 2024, 11:02
by Ajiferuke Ajibola
"Finding Closure" by Rosie Norman-Neubauer is a compelling memoir of the author's separation and reunion with her birth family. Your thorough review has prepared me for what to expect from the book. Congratulations to the author on BOTD.
Re: Review of Finding Closure
Posted: 09 Nov 2024, 11:20
by Suvankar Das 1
It sounds like a moving and inspiring memoir. Rosie's journey to uncover her roots and navigate complex emotions tied to her adoption is something many readers could resonate with, especially those touched by adoption or in search of self-discovery. The heartfelt insights and real-life reflections promise to make this a powerful read. Perfect for anyone drawn to stories of resilience, personal growth, and finding one’s true identity.