Review of Finally Free

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[Following is an official OnlineBookClub.org review of "Finally Free" by Seth Showalter.]

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5 out of 5 stars

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It can be quite damaging to try to be “normal” by everyone else’s standards. It is this unhealthy quest that prompted the author, Seth Showalter, to write this book. The author kept a journal where he penned down his thoughts on his journey through sexual orientation change. This book is an accumulation of what he wrote in that journal, with comments on what the author, who is now better informed, thinks about each entry.

Seth Showalter had an accident at age 6, which resulted in his having Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI). The wreck placed him in a coma for six days and resulted in several mental health issues, including depression. However, TBI was not responsible for much of the author’s problems. He discovered he was gay after having a sexual encounter with a colleague during his summer job in high school. This was the beginning of real conflict for Seth. As a religious young man, he struggled with accepting his same-sex attraction as he felt it was sinful. Everyone else around him thought so too. He begged God to change him and did everything in his power to change, including enrolling in a program that promised to have the solution. His experiences at NH provided many thought-provoking points. Whether or not this quest to transform into heterosexuality was successful, the reader will find out.

I liked the author’s writing style. He presented entries from his journal from each day in NH's program and made present-day comments on every one of them. He ensured he made clear-cut differences between entries from his journal and present-day comments. This made it easier to follow his story. The way he approached every matter critically and analytically was also commendable.

There was much to learn from this book. The author, who is now a therapist, stressed some of the ills of forceful sexual orientation change. He also brought to light how manipulative people can be in the name of religion. Even though I did not agree with the author on some matters, I appreciated his point of view and took some lessons from it.

I found nothing to dislike in this book. The author poured out his heart into writing this without any obvious loose ends. Although I noticed some errors in the book, it can still pass for a well-edited publication as the errors are not enough to disrupt the reader’s flow.

I rate this book five out of five stars because I enjoyed reading it. It was well written. The author’s point of view on sexual orientation change was spelled out from the beginning, leaving no confusion for the reader. I recommend Finally Free to open-minded individuals, especially those contemplating conversion therapy.

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[R Chinaza Onwuka]

Thanks for the great review. Being normal by everyone's standard or by the general standard is practically impossible. People who seems to be normal by everyone's standard are those who are hiding a lot of things.

[Anozie Stephanie]

I understand how Seth Showalter may feel, going through all these will surely make you not seem "normal." It is a great thing those thoughts were jotted down so as we would learn

[williams Emerald]

Seth Showalter’s journey in “Finally Free” is a powerful testament to the complexities of identity and the struggles many face in reconciling their sexuality with societal and religious expectations. His honesty and introspection make for a compelling read, shedding light on the harmful effects of conversion therapy and the importance of self-acceptance. This book offers valuable insights and serves as a beacon of hope for those navigating similar challenges.

[Chinenye Achilike]

Everyone is unique in their own way, and no behavior or preference is completely 'normal' or otherwise. We need to respect each other's choices.

[Idris Alooma]

As a fellow Michigander, I appreciate your thorough and insightful review of "Finally Free" by Seth Showalter. It's great to hear that the author's writing style, incorporating journal entries and present-day comments, made it easy to follow his story. I find it commendable that he critically analyzed his experiences in a program aimed at changing his sexual orientation. Your comment helped me understand that this book sheds light on the negative consequences of forced conversion therapy and manipulative religious practices. Overall, based on your review, I would rate the book a solid five out of five stars and I'm intrigued to give it a read. Thanks for sharing your thoughts! Resonant themes, left a profound impact.

[Anthony Caleb]

I think it is quite impossible to be normal in everyone standards, it means meeting up with everyone expectations.

[Mary John 10]

Normalizing the Struggle by Seth Showalter explores his journey with sexual orientation change, starting from his childhood traumatic brain injury to his internal conflict about being gay. Raised in a religious environment, he struggled to accept his same-sex attraction and sought conversion through various programs. The book reflects on his emotional and spiritual battles, offering a thought-provoking look at identity and acceptance.

[Naimah Agboluaje]

This review provides valuable insights into the book "Finally Free" by Seth Showalter. The reviewer praises the author's writing style and appreciation for his critical and analytical approach. The reader also commends the author for shedding light on the negative aspects of forceful sexual orientation change and manipulative religious practices. The reviewer found the book well-written and without significant flaws, and rates it five out of five stars. Overall, this review strongly suggests that "Finally Free" is a compelling and informative read for those interested in the topic of sexual orientation change. Unforgettable journey, filled with surprises and discoveries.

[Mark Lazarus]

It sounds like a deeply personal and thought-provoking read, especially with the journal-style entries and reflections from a more informed perspective. The exploration of identity, religion, and mental health is definitely compelling. While I may not agree with everything, I appreciate books that challenge perspectives and encourage critical thinking. I’d consider reading it to understand more about the personal impact of conversion therapy and the journey to self-acceptance.