Should Parents answer their children's question about sexual topics honestly?

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Carol McCoy Phelps
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Slayton Natasha Tillett wrote: 22 Jan 2024, 05:25 There is nothing to hide about sex. Children should be enlightened about sex so even when they are being molested the would realize it and able to report to the appropriate people. Lack of this knowledge would make them think it is normal.
You said so much here! Children need to be taught about “good touch, bad touch” skills. That isn’t mentioned in the book, but we need to ensure that they know how to advocate for themselves. Also, adults must believe the children.

There is nothing to hide when a child asks any question—about sex or anything else. We give the level of information they need and can understand at the time. We also let them know which topics are improper for discussion outside the family.
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I think parents should be honest. Perhaps not just explain the truth in an "adult" manner but in a way that will be suitable for the child without explicit details. It is always better to have control over what you child gets to know about sex as learning from the wrong individual may be harmful.
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Yes, parents should answer their children's sexual questions honestly. Deliver the answer according to the child's age and encourage your child to ask more questions, if needed. You do not want your child to get wrong information about sexual content. I remember my 5 year old female child came home from school and asked me "what was a penis?" I was very upset, but I did not show it. I answered her question. I related my answers to the bible. I encouraged her to ask as many questions about the subject as she needed. Today, at 32 years old, we have an open communication about sex and all subjects.
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This is quite complex however once the child is knowledgeable enough. It think it wise to tell them everything about sex. This would also help them protect themselves when faced with situations that involve the subject being discussed.
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I feel like when a child is bold enough to ask such questions parents should be bold enough to give an honest answer.
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