How can we provide comfort and support to someone who attempted suicide?

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I'd be upfront about it and address the elephant in the room--with tact, of course. It was a significant occurrence; no sense pretending otherwise, but it doesn't need to define the person or their relationships. I'd simply acknowledge it happened, let them know I'm here for them, and proceed with the relationship, mostly as it had always been, but with enough compassion to let them know their pain isn't overlooked and I'm always there for discussion.
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By teaching him biblically how important to keep life is reminding him of people who adore and depend on him.
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First and foremost, it's important to listen without judgment. People who have attempted suicide often feel a lot of shame and guilt, so it's crucial to create a safe and supportive environment where they can share their thoughts and feelings. Avoid asking why they did it or telling them that they shouldn't have attempted suicide. Instead, focus on expressing your concern and care for them, and offer practical help if needed. You can also suggest that they seek professional help from a therapist or counselor. Lastly, offer to check in on them regularly and remind them that they're not alone in their struggle.
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I have never been around someone who attempted to commit suicide. But if I were to give support to one, I would make myself readily available to them. I would always get them food and also give them words of encouragement.
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I have never been around someone who attempted to commit suicide. But if I were to give support to one, I would make myself readily available to them. I would always get them food and also give them words of encouragement.
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I have never been around someone who attempted to commit suicide. But if I were to give support to one, I would make myself readily available to them. I would always get them food and also give them words of encouragement.
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I have never been around someone who attempted to commit suicide. But if I were to give support to one, I would make myself readily available to them. I would always get them food and also give them words of encouragement.
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It's challenging for me to respond to this topic because I believe there are several possible solutions. My preference is to have a conversation with the person and let them know that they can rely on others.
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