Social Media - Good for Our Youth or Not?

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Re: Social Media - Good for Our Youth or Not?

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Social media requires a certain level of maturity for young people to safely navigate the various platforms. Young people with depression or other mental health issues can easily be caught up in a negative spiral. Others can benefit from information and connecting with family in friends in a positive manner.

As long as parents are monitoring the general mental health of their children, use of social media can be positive. Unfortunately many users get caught up in the negativity.
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To be honest I think social media is just extra weight on teenagers' shoulders. Most teens are already bullied at school, where it's just contained at the school and the students. Cyber bullying however is a much bigger audience which means that a teen not only now have to 'fight' through it at school but also 'fight' someone they don't even know.
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Excessive social media usage, particularly before night, may alter sleep patterns and result in sleep deprivation, both of which can have a poor influence on general well-being and cognitive performance. Young users may also be unaware of the significance of privacy settings and online safety, rendering them vulnerable to online predators and possible abuse. It is crucial to emphasise that the influence of social media varies greatly amongst people, and not everyone suffers bad repercussions.
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Stephanie Runyon wrote: 01 Aug 2023, 18:09 I think the maturity of the individual child needs to be taken into consideration. I also believe that parents should monitor their child's online activity and limit screen time. Too often cyberbullying occurs and that can have a negative impact on a person's self-esteem and self-worth.
Hi Stephanie, I would like to add that open conversation between parents and children about their online experiences may assist in building trust and encourage kids to seek help or advice if they face cyberbullying or other troubling circumstances. Equipping children with digital literacy and encouraging responsible internet usage equips them to navigate the online world successfully and securely while also nurturing positive self-esteem and a strong sense of self-worth in the face of possible hurdles.
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I thought Julie Wright balanced the for and against social media for young people very well. It's such a slippery slope, though. We can't stop our kids from accessing social media, as that's where all their friends are. but we must monitor their usage. Children and teens often use social media as a way to express how they're feeling so be sure to read their posts and look for any direct or indirect cries for help.
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It's a complicated question, because social media can have both positive and negative effects on today's youth. On the positive side, social media can be a great way to connect with others, share information, and express oneself creatively. It can also be a useful tool for learning and for keeping up with the latest news and trends. However, there are also some potential negative effects of social media. For example, it can be a source of cyberbullying, and it can also lead to feelings of FOMO (fear of missing out) and anxiety.
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I believe the book balanced it out accordingly and that social media has good and bad aspects. How you use it, is which depends on which side of the good or bad you are at. Overuse or even addiction to being on social media is bad, and there are loads of criminals hiding in plain sight. There are still a lot of homes and schools where certain topics are taboo or forbidden, and in today's world I do believe that everything should be out in the open to be discussed with someone where you feel safe. If you don't have that, the internet/social media platform can be a huge help and eye-opener.
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Timothy Rucinski wrote: 29 Jul 2023, 15:14 The author addresses the issue of social media and the effect social media platforms have on young men and women. I thought that both plusses and minuses were balanced in the book, primarily through the success demonstrated through Damion's YouTube videos and the backlash he received from haters as a member of the Hope Squad. The topic is front and center in the book, but it doesn't overwhelm the story. Do you think the author addressed the issue thoroughly and do you believe the prevalence of social media is detrimental to youngsters today?
Absolutely, the way the author handles the topic of social media in "Swimming in a Sea of Stars" by Julie Wright is really good. The book shows both the good and bad sides of how social media affects young people. It's nicely balanced, like when Damion becomes successful with his YouTube videos but also has to deal with negative comments as part of the Hope Squad. The book talks about social media a lot, but it doesn't take over the whole story.

Now, whether social media is bad for young people nowadays, it's not a simple answer. Social media can be good for making friends and sharing things, like Damion's videos. But it also has problems like cyberbullying and people comparing themselves to others too much. The book shows some of these problems through Damion's experiences. So, it's really about how we use social media and how we handle its challenges that decide if it's bad or not. The book helps us think about all of this and what social media means for young people today.
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That’s a really difficult question. I use social media and receive my share of hurtful comments, but I am old enough that I don’t really let them bother me. For a high school kid, however, they are just not mature enough to letother’s opinions of them slide off their backs, for the most part. On the other hand, I live far away from where I grew up and social media helps me keep up with the news. Our youth don’t usually have that problem. So, in answer to your question, it depends. Iknow that wasn’t what you were looking for.
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Looking at the positive side of it... It's amazing but it needs a lot of regulations
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It matters on how that youth gonna use social media and what benefits will he get in return and also any youth should have a guider who can help
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I think the way social media is used nowadays is more harmful than useful to teenagers and adults alike. The amount of time lost and the influence it has on their lives is scary. It literally rules teenagers' society and social status in an unhealthy way. I think the author was smart to include this issue in the manner she did in her book.
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I think Damion's YouTube presence and the anonymous bullying he received was only the tip of the iceberg as far as what young adults are experiencing today. I don't think the author addressed the influence and hazards of social media thoroughly, but I also didn't expect it, and I think that it could have taken away from the novel to do so.

Young adults today were exposed to social media platforms as kids, but they most likely didn't have parents who grew up with it and could offer guidance to navigate it and engage with it in a healthy manner. I'm cautiously optimistic that newer generations will have more insight on managing a digital presence.
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I liked the way the author approached this topic, because, as you said, it wasn't overwhelming, but also wasn't ignored. For me, though, we are not in a position to question whether social media is good or bad, in general, anymore. It is already a crucial part of this generation's life. However, we should question the limits that should be posed, thinking about age, time of usage, and even the access social media companies have to our lives.
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Julie Basil wrote: 01 Aug 2023, 21:07 I think that the time period of a single day makes it difficult for the author to thoroughly address the issues of social media for young people. She does a great job of showing the positive and negative effects of it, as you noted, but it is not a main focus of the novel. I think that social media can be detrimental because it can give people the impression of connection with others, even when that connection is not there outside of social media. Social media can also become very consuming for young people and older people alike, taking away from time they might otherwise spend interacting with people around them.
The thing about the illusion of connection is such a good point! The sociologist Zygmunt Bauman talks about it in his work "Liquid Modernity", which describes how human bonds in the internet era are so volatile.
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