Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

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Re: Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

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I partly agree with Dr. Ross. Humans are social creatures. Even Bacon says that Solitude is the habit of beasts. However, I do think introverts will disagree. They need time to recharge from the bustle of society.
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Individualism and loneliness are things that are not necessarily compatible, that depends on each person. Many people feel better and at peace when they are alone.
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It could be related to the balance between solitude and socializing, the importance of individualism, or any other point you find interesting in the previous response.
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I don't agree completely with what the author says. I'm someone who likes being alone, and I think it's important to have time for yourself. Being independent and focusing on your own needs is valuable. But sometimes, it's also good to have support from others, even if it means taking a break from being by yourself.
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I honestly thing it's a great insight. There are a few thing I don't accept . But again, that's why ŵe are different people. How we see things are quite different.
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Your perspective underscores the complexity of social relationships and suggests that the benefits of a broad social network might not be universally applicable or perceived in the same way by everyone.
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I found it quite basic. I tend to thrive in solitude as people often cause me stress. Consequently, I'm discerning about the company I choose.
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I found it quite basic. I tend to thrive in solitude as people often cause me stress. Consequently, I'm discerning about the company I choose.
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It's perfectly fine to seek solitude at times. Enjoying one's own company is not a negative thing, and taking occasional breaks from others can be rejuvenating.
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Personally, the reason for mentioning a generic network as an advantage is subjective and depends on personal preferences and environment.
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I was completely in agreement with the author. Although I share a similar view with that of the author. I also go with the view that socializing brings happiness and connection with people.
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I don't completely agree with the author's ways. I'm someone who enjoys solitude. Being alone doesn't mean you're sad—it's actually important to connect with yourself. Individualism matters too. I'm not saying you should shut yourself off, but finding a balance between alone time and socializing is key to happiness.
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Not really; I believe that an idle mind is the devil's workshop, but there are times when everyone needs alone time. When something big happens in my life or when my plans do not work out, I sometimes need some alone time to process and come to terms with it.
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Post by Ludovica Peruzzi »

I'm also someone who likes being alone, and I didn't think Dr. Randy's statement was too simplistic at all. Having space and independence is essential, and no one's saying you need to be around people 24/7 - but when you're used to being on your own, it's easy to forget the perks of friendship and companionship and slip into self-isolation. I think you need to be able to tell when being alone is a choice that you're making to help preserve your emotional stability, and when it's born out of a feeling of inadequacy.
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