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Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

Posted: 16 Dec 2023, 05:23
by Melisa Jane
This is a discussion topic for the December 2023 Book of the Month, "Fireproof Happiness: Extinguishing Anxiety & Igniting Hope" by Dr. Randy Ross

Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

Re: Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

Posted: 16 Dec 2023, 07:41
by NetMassimo
Honestly, I think it was too simplistic. Personally, I feel better mostly on my own while often people stress me. For this reason, I'm very selective in the company I keep. That's very subjective, depending on your personality and the environment in which you live, so mentioning a generic network of people as an advantage felt really simplistic to me.

Re: Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

Posted: 16 Dec 2023, 11:53
by Conshelle Dwight William
I found it quite basic. I tend to thrive in solitude as people often cause me stress. Consequently, I'm discerning about the company I choose. This is subjective, hinging on one's personality and living environment. Hence, citing a broad social network as a benefit seemed overly simplified to me.

Re: Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

Posted: 22 Dec 2023, 02:37
by Yasmine ZM
I do not agree completely with the author's methods. I am also one of those who enjoy being alone. Solitude is often seen like a sign of sadness, like a negative thing. It is important to take time to connect with yourself. Individualism is important as well. I am not saying one should isolate themselves, a good dose of socializing is also key to happiness. It's all about balance.

Re: Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

Posted: 23 Dec 2023, 09:02
by Diana Lowery
Although I am perfectly content being in solitude, I think that the "Green Boots" example was an excellent reminder that being alone is not always the best option. There are times when having support from others is for the best even if it does interrupt our individualism.

Re: Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

Posted: 23 Dec 2023, 11:59
by Shirley Ann Riddern Labzentis
As I get older, I find that being in solitude is preferable to being with a group of people. People are primarily annoying, myself included, and I prefer my own company to that of others. I remember when I was growing up, if my friends were not around, I found it almost impossible to get through the day. Now, I love it when my husband goes out for the day!

Re: Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

Posted: 26 Dec 2023, 13:57
by Kristin Cowan
Solitude can affect each person differently. Some get too much in their head, while some gain clarity in alone time. It also depends how much time is spent alone and what you do. If you are alone all of the time and it is negatively impacting you, that is obviously not helpful. But many people just need solitude to break from chaos.

Re: Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

Posted: 30 Dec 2023, 11:19
by João Ramos
NetMassimo wrote: 16 Dec 2023, 07:41 Honestly, I think it was too simplistic. Personally, I feel better mostly on my own while often people stress me. For this reason, I'm very selective in the company I keep. That's very subjective, depending on your personality and the environment in which you live, so mentioning a generic network of people as an advantage felt really simplistic to me.
Now that you put it that way, I remembered I had also found Dr.Ross's statement simplistic. There are infinite types of people, and what works for one may not work for another. His arguments defending "Hope" are universal, but you nailed it in this specific aspect.

Re: Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

Posted: 30 Dec 2023, 15:48
by Bettny Andrade
Everyone has their own way of thinking. Many people who are alone feel very bad, they cannot be alone because depression attacks them. However, there are others who love the tranquility of silence and stillness. Stress or anxiety can be triggered by different factors, pinpointing something specific, I don't see it as feasible.

Re: Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

Posted: 20 Jan 2024, 23:42
by Smrithi Arun
I think it’s okay to want to be alone at times. It isn’t a sad thing if one enjoys their own company, plus occasional breaks from fellow-humans is much needed many times.

Re: Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

Posted: 24 Jan 2024, 11:24
by Eric DUSHIMIRIMANA
Yes. The author recommends balancing "walking alone" and "walking" with our fellow humans.

We are social and interdependent creatures. We cannot survive and thrive on our own all the time. We need others, particularly in hard times.

However, the hard work of introspection and reflection and part of intellectual development should be a solo journey. Each of us is on our consciousness level. Solitary life allows for independent exploration of the world. We need diverse schools of thought; it is suitable for our collective intelligence.

Re: Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

Posted: 25 Jan 2024, 03:25
by Mary Clarkee
I don't fully align with the author's approach either. I appreciate solitude and don't view it negatively; it's a valuable time for self-reflection. Individualism holds importance, but I agree that a balance with socializing is crucial for overall happiness. It's about finding the right equilibrium between time alone for self-connection and engaging with others for a well-rounded sense of well-being.

Re: Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

Posted: 26 Jan 2024, 01:13
by Salome Ogani
While the author builds a compelling case for prioritizing greater connectedness and community to combat loneliness, I found the arguments diminished vital complementary values of solitude and self-discovery.

Re: Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

Posted: 26 Jan 2024, 01:14
by Salome Ogani
The writer depicts solo pursuits largely through a lens of deficit and dysfunction, rather than acknowledging the documented cognitive and emotional benefits that can accompany time spent alone in balance with social bonds.

Re: Do you agree with the author's comments on solitude and individualism in Chapter six?

Posted: 26 Jan 2024, 01:16
by Salome Ogani
In cautioning against the rising crisis of isolation, the author proffers engagement as an unnuanced countermeasure without addressing how occasional solitude often enriches imagination, restores mental focus, and consolidates our sense of identity from introspective inner work.