"Life is not meant to be lived alone." Do you agree with this statement as explained in Chapter six of this book?
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Well, well, well. You put a spin on this that I did not expect to see! Who on earth would think of horcuxes being the people with whom we interact? That’s a good one. It’s a bit of a stretch since the witch or wizard rips the soul into two pieces, but I like the analogy anyway and find it apropos. I also like that, unlike other posts, you mention that we even need our enemies. It is the human interaction that sustains sanity and life.Naushin Moledina wrote: ↑02 Jan 2024, 03:02 According to me, the relationships are the things that define us and our life. Without love, friendship or even enemies we are nothing. We leave our parts with everyone like the horcruxes of ourselves with every person we spend time with. So, ya ‘life is not meant to be lived alone’. It will be so boring without the connections that god has given us to live with.
However, I would take your response to answer the question in a black and white manner. It is all or nothing. You seem to view the answer in terms of total immersion in society or total isolation from all mankind. My response will differ slightly.
Living alone is perfectly doable for some people. In fact, there are individuals who enjoy their solitude, their havens of peace and quiet where they can retreat and shut away all of the craziness “out there.” I am such a person. I lived alone for several years. Oh, I worked a very people-oriented job, did volunteer work, and attended church. But my home was my quiet place. I did not visit other people’s homes and didn’t invite people over.
I am married to a hermit. We do not socialize. Really, we both detest parties and “events” in public venues. Now that we’re both retired, we go for days at a time that we live happily and quietly, enjoying our dog and our personal interests. We’re well-balanced, well-educated individuals who communicate with our families and enjoy social media. But, our home is private.
I can live alone and love it. Life can be meant to be lived alone, but not in absolute isolation. There is a difference.
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I agree with you. A person can be alone and happy. We all come to a point where we enjoy our own solitude and seek no human interaction. I have been to that phase. Actually I still am in the same place. But I still believe that human interaction is a must for all of us to live. It can be your family or your spouse. I like how you changed the sentence, and now it all makes sense. "Life is meant to be lived alone, but not in absolute isolation." I couldn't have thought of it that way. Thank you for your perspective.Carol McCoy Phelps wrote: ↑08 Feb 2024, 21:12Well, well, well. You put a spin on this that I did not expect to see! Who on earth would think of horcuxes being the people with whom we interact? That’s a good one. It’s a bit of a stretch since the witch or wizard rips the soul into two pieces, but I like the analogy anyway and find it apropos. I also like that, unlike other posts, you mention that we even need our enemies. It is the human interaction that sustains sanity and life.Naushin Moledina wrote: ↑02 Jan 2024, 03:02 According to me, the relationships are the things that define us and our life. Without love, friendship or even enemies we are nothing. We leave our parts with everyone like the horcruxes of ourselves with every person we spend time with. So, ya ‘life is not meant to be lived alone’. It will be so boring without the connections that god has given us to live with.
However, I would take your response to answer the question in a black and white manner. It is all or nothing. You seem to view the answer in terms of total immersion in society or total isolation from all mankind. My response will differ slightly.
Living alone is perfectly doable for some people. In fact, there are individuals who enjoy their solitude, their havens of peace and quiet where they can retreat and shut away all of the craziness “out there.” I am such a person. I lived alone for several years. Oh, I worked a very people-oriented job, did volunteer work, and attended church. But my home was my quiet place. I did not visit other people’s homes and didn’t invite people over.
I am married to a hermit. We do not socialize. Really, we both detest parties and “events” in public venues. Now that we’re both retired, we go for days at a time that we live happily and quietly, enjoying our dog and our personal interests. We’re well-balanced, well-educated individuals who communicate with our families and enjoy social media. But, our home is private.
I can live alone and love it. Life can be meant to be lived alone, but not in absolute isolation. There is a difference.
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