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This is a discussion topic for the February 2024 Book of the Month, "Beyond the Golden Door: Seeing the American Dream Through an Immigrant's Eyes" by Ali Master.


Which of Ali's experiences did you relate with the most?

To some extent, I can personally relate to the pressure imposed by family expectations, particularly when it comes to academic performance and pursuing a STEM education. The weight of parental expectations can be immense, driven by a desire to showcase their child as a shining example of success to extended family members. This pressure often stems from a need for parental control, leading to a lack of communication and an absence of encouragement for sharing one's feelings or aspirations.

I personally relate to Ali's childhood, because I am from India. As a Indian I have seen a lot Muslims and I know about their customs. Indians and Pakistanis are very similar in my things so I related to my scenes from his childhood

I relate to his culture and beliefs. I was raised in a similar environment as him so it was very familiar.

pressure imposed by family expectations, it reminded me of my family, and it made me very emotional.

Personally, I relate to his childhood. As someone who grew up amid Muslims and also had friends who are Muslims. I know what the culture practices and mindset entails.

Family expectations. It reminded me of times when I felt unloved because of some particular expectations I was meant to fulfill that I ended up not fulfilling. And how much struggle I put into being the desired type of child.

I can relate to the expectations of family the most. It can be suffocating at times and it is always difficult to navigate.