L.O.V.E. ....Cupid's Choke Hold (What does it mean to you?)
- dejona84
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True, True. You do not deserve that. Rant as much as you feel like!rose4you wrote:physical abuse is a very horrible thing to go through, but so is mental abuse, being 'used' as you say. sounds like you had both, i'm sorry to hear that, no one deserves to be treated anyway but with love or kindness. and respect above all. i work with abused women and children, i see the effects it has over them. i don't know your age dear or if you have children, but if you ever need to talk i'll listen. and its allright to rant, people need to let things out. it helps to heal.Star wrote:You know Alli I really do know what your going through. I've had just two relationships in my lifetime, both have done quite a bit of damage to me.awelker wrote:so i've come to terms that i get my hopes up way to much. this guy that i have been dating really hurt me tonight. which is something that he said he never wanted to do.
sry i have rambled but this really bothered me and i needed to vent real bad.
I'm tired of being nice...I don't have it in me to be compassionate today when speaking on this subject.
Truth is I feel I can sum up both of my relationships with very few words.
Abused the first...Used the second. I don't feel either gave a who about me. One I was just his punching bag...the second hmm, a "twist" in his story. Thats all.Sorry for my wee little rant. I'm hurt too.
I am here with my shoulder and my goblet for you anytime Star!
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- walt
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You young women need to care more for yourself, and star don't ever let a man put his hands on you!!! I know its easier said than done sometimes, but their not a real man in my book if they abuse others.
- dejona84
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Good for you! I am happy for you!awelker wrote:i am so glad that someone created this topic. and this evening i did just that, i didn't think about him. i went to a friends house for dinner (free food I am so there) and sat and started watching the detroit red wings playoff game. and all of you guys are right. i have decided that i am going to back off. if things are supposed to happen they will. i mean i'm not going to erase him from my life but im not going to make him a priority when he makes me an option. i had a self realization today and it was good.


- dejona84
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I am sorry to hear that. Good that you are getting out as well though. I love plays! Another way to escape!walt wrote:I'm glad someone made this thread too, my wife finally left me the other day and I bummed around the last few days but, just getting on here and venting some helps alot! I'm 30 and I know things will get better further down the road. But I feel you all! I'm about to go see a play with friends.
You young women need to care more for yourself, and star don't ever let a man put his hands on you!!! I know its easier said than done sometimes, but their not a real man in my book if they abuse others.
Where is my good friend Star by the way? I have a nice clear evening to toast too!

- Hamlet
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dejona84 wrote: Where is my good friend Star by the way? I have a nice clear evening to toast too!


star! someone hit you! that sh*t pisses me off! send him my way.

alli i'm glad you are putting yourself first! hope the food was good lol.
star keep your twinkle, you make me laugh!! you ladies and gents be good. walt man i feel you!!
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- Tracey Neal
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I'm here!! Lets toast!! Lets toast to Alli for standing tall and Walt for riding out the waves as well! Sláinte everyone!!dejona84 wrote:I am sorry to hear that. Good that you are getting out as well though. I love plays! Another way to escape!walt wrote:I'm glad someone made this thread too, my wife finally left me the other day and I bummed around the last few days but, just getting on here and venting some helps alot! I'm 30 and I know things will get better further down the road. But I feel you all! I'm about to go see a play with friends.
You young women need to care more for yourself, and star don't ever let a man put his hands on you!!! I know its easier said than done sometimes, but their not a real man in my book if they abuse others.
Where is my good friend Star by the way? I have a nice clear evening to toast too!




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Coming to center stage...Stttttaaaarrrr!Star wrote:Well girls I forgot to mention to you both I use to be an exotic dancer...dejona84 wrote:KaeMartyndale wrote: I'm down with naked!
Alrighty then!
might have to bring the pole to the forum...do some POLE DANCIN!!! YEAHHHHHHH!!![]()
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