Three phases of a Life of a Christian

Post by **Sushan Ekanayake** » 22 May 2020, 20:56

bookreviewmi1111 wrote: ↑12 May 2020, 06:36
Deborah kalu wrote: ↑04 May 2020, 19:13 The author totally remind me of what I had gone through that made me even to misbehave in different ways because I felt my life has come to an end.but, do you know what?despite all my wrongs his grace is still sufficient to me that I keep wondering what kind of God is this?????? So,when ever I saw anyone in the shoe I was before, I make sure I stretch my hand to help in the possible way I can.yes,the author is very correct about the three phases in the life of a Christian. And mine is practical. Thank you for bringing this up.
It sounds beautiful I think this can be a "life progress", not only for Christians. That's why there are people who get over there crisis then help other people because they understand the feeling.

I agree with you. Those who suffered the most have the most kind hearts, because they know how it feels to be downtrodden and frustrated

Post by **Sushan Ekanayake** » 22 May 2020, 20:59

Kelyn wrote: ↑12 May 2020, 15:44 I think it's more likely for us to recognize God's grace when we're in a crisis because that is when our prayers and concentration on the divine are most intense. I once heard this tendency phrased as "putting God up on a shelf" like he's just a decoration of our lives that we can show off when we are in good places and not so needy of grace. I think that's an apt description of what many of us do.

"Putting God up on a shelf", that is a nice saying. Yes, when you are okay in your life, still the God will be with you and make it more beautiful

Post by **Sushan Ekanayake** » 22 May 2020, 21:00

Dreamer80 wrote: ↑12 May 2020, 23:47 The three phases were totally relatable. We always remember God when we're in crisis, and that's the high-time to return to him. And after we realize that, we tend to be more forgiving and understanding towards those who are still struggling.

Yeah, we are reminded of the God when we are in trouble. It is good to keep in my mind how you got over and return that grace to the others who are in need

Post by **Sushan Ekanayake** » 22 May 2020, 21:02

gracedivine wrote: ↑13 May 2020, 10:07 These phases mentioned here are not rigid. I mean, like the last comment, the grace of God comes in many ways. It all depends on what your challenge is. God's grace can come in the form of a breakthrough for one who is in dire need of help. It could also appear as a solution to a critical problem. Or simply an answer to a question.

I think the way you see is more important . Maybe your prayer is not answered as exactly as you wanted, but later you may realize that was the best solution

Post by **Sushan Ekanayake** » 22 May 2020, 21:03

Estrellah254 wrote: ↑14 May 2020, 01:09 I agree with the author. Christian experience these three phases in life. Personally, I have experienced this and it is very practical.

Not only Christians, any human being faces these phases and how they act and react make the world how it is

Post by **Sushan Ekanayake** » 22 May 2020, 21:04

Nujudee wrote: ↑14 May 2020, 17:58 Receiving Grace happens to be one of the best gifts a Christian can receive.
This comes after salvation and Holy Ghost spit impartation.
Once a believer receives grace, he is charged for any crisis and can also impart people's lives.

Thats is a more religious way to interpret the question, and I appreciate that

Post by **Sushan Ekanayake** » 22 May 2020, 21:05

kutlee wrote: ↑15 May 2020, 04:13 A Crisis may never come. But Grace is always there. I have had some hard times but those are not the reason I need Grace. The grace I have received is that which bonds me to my heavenly father..giving me a right to be called a child of God. Yes..I need to share with others this same grace..I do try my best.

If you are true to your heart and a really good person, it is unlikely to be faced with any major crisis

Post by **Sushan Ekanayake** » 22 May 2020, 21:07

Deborah kalu wrote: ↑15 May 2020, 16:31
gracedivine wrote: ↑13 May 2020, 10:07 These phases mentioned here are not rigid. I mean, like the last comment, the grace of God comes in many ways. It all depends on what your challenge is. God's grace can come in the form of a breakthrough for one who is in dire need of help. It could also appear as a solution to a critical problem. Or simply an answer to a question.
I agree with you.many of us don't even know that the life we are living is the best grace ever.

To most of us that is true. But when we look at the world it is doubtful whether everyone is having a life which is full of grace

Amanda Nicole Newton · Post by **Amanda Nicole Newton** » 22 May 2020, 23:47

I don't think that one HAS to experience a crisis, but it does seem to be easier to find grace or help or strength when you do. Then when back on your feet, it is easy to pass that along to someone else.

Post by **Sushan Ekanayake** » 23 May 2020, 05:09

Deborah kalu wrote: ↑15 May 2020, 16:48
Nujudee wrote: ↑14 May 2020, 17:58 Receiving Grace happens to be one of the best gifts a Christian can receive.
This comes after salvation and Holy Ghost spit impartation.
Once a believer receives grace, he is charged for any crisis and can also impart people's lives.
Do you said "once a believer receives grace, he is charged for any crisis"??hmmm,this is what some Christians don't want to hear. They always want it very sweet and smooth.

Some people get stronger as they face catastrophes but some become weaker. In whatever situation, you can wish for God's grace and brazen yourself. So that statement depends on personal qualities

Post by **Sushan Ekanayake** » 23 May 2020, 05:11

Ariely 20 wrote: ↑18 May 2020, 01:59 Even as a person who was introduced to God early in life. It is during difficult times that i have come to a much deeper relationship with God. I don't completely agree with the 3 stage concept but i know anyone who experiences grace always feels the need to share with others.

It may not be applicable to all the situations and all who are faced with catastrophe. But these three phases are followed in any issue more or less

Post by **Sushan Ekanayake** » 23 May 2020, 05:13

AntonelaMaria wrote: ↑18 May 2020, 07:35
Deborah kalu wrote: ↑11 May 2020, 01:12
AntonelaMaria wrote: ↑10 May 2020, 15:20

It is a great question but there is a lot to unpack here. I have to admit that the definition of crisis can be very subjective from one person to the other. Also do we get just one crisis? How do we measure it?

I think I have received grace in a form of answered prayers but I have to say I am still learning how to give it back to others. Or I am not doing it as it is mentioned in this book. It seems to me that here everything is described in huge extremes. There is a lot of stories here that are of people going through this huge pain and then switch their life for 180* . I don't know I haven't experienced life in such way yet. My connection with my religion was never that shaken , sure I had moments of doubt or distance but never in extreme way.
This is why the word grace is very powerful.never experience some of this rough experiences in the book in an extreme way??, Is nothing but grace. Not because of your connection with your religion.for God show mercy to whom he choose to show mercy.the story of psalm in the bible is a very good example.Despite all his shortcomings God still call him the Apple of his eyes.isn't that amazing??
Yes, it is amazing. I agree the power of grace is great.

What I believe is its power depends on what you believe and how strong you are as a person when faced to a crisis

Post by **Sushan Ekanayake** » 23 May 2020, 05:14

AntonelaMaria wrote: ↑18 May 2020, 07:39
gracedivine wrote: ↑13 May 2020, 10:07 These phases mentioned here are not rigid. I mean, like the last comment, the grace of God comes in many ways. It all depends on what your challenge is. God's grace can come in the form of a breakthrough for one who is in dire need of help. It could also appear as a solution to a critical problem. Or simply an answer to a question.
I think this very well explained. I agree. Maybe we at times are not even aware of receiving a grace.

I agree too. Only when miracles happen we realize that this is not just chance or our own doing, but a doing of some superior power

Post by **Sushan Ekanayake** » 23 May 2020, 05:37

AntonelaMaria wrote: ↑18 May 2020, 07:42
Ariely 20 wrote: ↑18 May 2020, 01:59 Even as a person who was introduced to God early in life. It is during difficult times that i have come to a much deeper relationship with God. I don't completely agree with the 3 stage concept but i know anyone who experiences grace always feels the need to share with others.
I struggled a long time with that part of turning to faith more in times of need then every other time. I come to realize it is purely human in me. I think that these three stages might be considered a little less rigidly too.

We become close to our religion and beliefs when we are in trouble. That is human nature. You are so true in that statement

Post by **Sushan Ekanayake** » 23 May 2020, 05:39

Becccccca+98 wrote: ↑19 May 2020, 17:43 I think the three phases are fairly accurate. A few years ago, my brother was in a bad accident that badly damaged his face. He had a 50/50 survival rate. Thanks to God's Grace my brother was saved. We then shared his story in the church, as a testimony to encourage others and give hope to the hopeless. Overall, I think that these phases are pretty accurate but at the same time I think that it differs from person to person. I think this is because some people are more comfortable with sharing God's Grace, where as others are not as comfortable yet.

I am glad to hear that your brother's outcome was well. Yes, sharing God's grace has to be practiced and it does not simply done by anyone. Only practice makes you comfortable in sharing it