Positive and Negative Stressors
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Re: Positive and Negative Stressors
cluthrie wrote: ↑01 Aug 2020, 20:09 Stress can be positive! You're right!
I recently had a job interview and was stressed beforehand. The stress prompted me to work hard and prepare to be the best candidate for the job I could be! In that case the stress was positive.
Think about a crying baby... that will stress anyone out, but it's positive because the baby is communicating to you that it needs something. The stress from hearing the baby cry prompts you to act. Good for you and the baby! Assuming it's your own kid, lol.
I really like the point you made about the interview. But, it seems you handled the stress well. Others may have a meltdown and quit all together. But yes, in this case, it is positive.
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I'd say that if something stresses you out but then afterwards you feel a positive emotion, pride or happiness or whatever, you have a positive stressor.
Negative stressors would then be the ones that make you feel bad afterwards
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Indeed.Stephanie Elizabeth wrote: ↑01 Aug 2020, 08:53 I agree with you, and I have also, always, thought that stress was a negative thing--probably because it is portrayed that way in our society. I think a great example of stress being a positive thing is if a person knows they are in danger, the stress causes a flight or fight response, which can, as a result save your life. But if a person is always in a state of panic, the flight or fight response is always active, even if there is no threat, and that's when anxiety and stress can be detrimental.
Actually, I still believe stress itself is a negative thing-and is meant to be so.the after effects are detrimental in some way.
Stressors, however can in fact be negative or positive and that is where your analogy comes in.

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I agree with you stress can be positive, when it becomes necessary for positive result.rahilshajahan wrote: ↑01 Aug 2020, 05:59 The book talks about stressors (reasons for one to stress) being of two types- positive and negative. I always believed stress was not good emotionally and physically, basically negative.
But now that I think about it, an assignment which you can solve with some hours of studying should be positive stress. Am I thinking right? Do you have any better examples?
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I think there are a lot of positive stressors in our life brought on by wanting to be the best person we can be. For example, wanting to perform well at sports so working hard and spending the time to make it happen. Also doing well in school, like studying for tests and working into the night to make sure that the paper is better than average.rahilshajahan wrote: ↑01 Aug 2020, 05:59 The book talks about stressors (reasons for one to stress) being of two types- positive and negative. I always believed stress was not good emotionally and physically, basically negative.
But now that I think about it, an assignment which you can solve with some hours of studying should be positive stress. Am I thinking right? Do you have any better examples?
I think the negative stressors in our lives are often brought on by how we think others perceive us. For example, we are often worried about how we look, if people think we are nice, etc. I think teenagers are more apt to feel these stressors.
What I think we all need to do is make sure that we are not adding to the stressors by letting them take too much of our time and attention, especially when it is trying to be accepted or behave the way we think someone wants us to.
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I agree with you, stress can be both positive and negative, it’s the flight or fight response. But if the response happens at times when not needed, this is anxiety.Stephanie Elizabeth wrote: ↑01 Aug 2020, 08:53 I agree with you, and I have also, always, thought that stress was a negative thing--probably because it is portrayed that way in our society. I think a great example of stress being a positive thing is if a person knows they are in danger, the stress causes a flight or fight response, which can, as a result save your life. But if a person is always in a state of panic, the flight or fight response is always active, even if there is no threat, and that's when anxiety and stress can be detrimental.
I also thought of stress as a mostly negative thing until I learnt about the flight and fight response. And how survival instincts kick in if needed.
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