Review of Trusting People

[Vivian Writes]

[Following is an official OnlineBookClub.org review of "Trusting People" by Guy De Furia Ph D.]

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4 out of 5 stars

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Trust is at the core of human interaction. Constantly worrying about trusting people incorrectly can cause a person to suffer from “low trust,” consequently affecting their productivity and happiness. Guy De Furia, in Trusting People: Security & Comfort Vs Risks & Pain, explores the best practices we can use to build trust and, in turn, improve our interpersonal relationships, whether in the workplace, in our love lives, in our families, or with strangers.

De Furia begins by explaining interpersonal trust generally, including how to gauge another person’s trust and how trust can be faked. He then delves into how we can build trust, especially if it has been destroyed. The author provides genuine pointers on how readers can build self-awareness on trust, avoid being manipulated or cheated, and build more meaningful and fulfilling relationships with other people.

They say a person’s understanding of a topic is best known if they can teach it as simply as possible. And Guy De Furia, with a Ph.D. and a dissertation on the Behavioral Model of Interpersonal Trust, easily showed his expertise. It is easy to underestimate how impactful trust is and what it truly means, but by handling the basic building blocks of trust and giving various examples of characters through which they manifest, De Furia’s lessons showed depth. In addition to his detailed explanations, the author provided various exercises that can help readers with the practical implementation of his teachings. The exercises were often posed as questions to challenge readers to apply a lesson, either to their real lives or to an imagined story.

The author was straightforward and skillfully used stories succinctly to pass across various points. Whether it was his real life or an imagined story, De Furia weaved each story perfectly into each lesson. I appreciated that each chapter handled specific scenarios of trust. For example, there were chapters on self-trust, trust in a friendship, trust in a marriage or a civil union, trust in a family, trust in schools, trust in strangers, and trust in the workplace. The author’s meticulousness and attention to detail were laudable.

I hardly found any reasons to dislike this book. The lessons were meaningful, and the author made a point to be inclusive. For example, in the chapter discussing trust in marriages or civil unions, the author acknowledged the different types of unions, including same-sex marriages and cohabitation, without any undertones of judgment; he always remained objective.

However, my one complaint is that I found a couple of errors that could have easily been spotted with diligent editing. I also found that one or two exercises were repeated, and some exercises seemed like questions the author should answer. Consequently, my rating is 4 out of 5 stars. Trust is an overarching matter, so I'd love to recommend this book to every adult. But I especially recommend the book to readers who want to gain a better understanding of trust.

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[Kebun Bunga]

The feedback on the review for "Trusting People: Security & Comfort Vs Risks & Pain" acknowledges the importance of trust in human interaction and the exploration of building trust in interpersonal relationships. The reviewer commends Guy De Furia's expertise and ability to simplify complex concepts in trust, as demonstrated through his clear explanations and incorporation of relatable examples. The inclusion of practical exercises to apply the lessons is appreciated. The author's storytelling and attention to specific scenarios of trust in different contexts, while remaining inclusive and objective, are laudable. The reviewer mentions a few errors and repetition in exercises as the only drawbacks. The overall rating is 4 out of 5 stars, and the book is recommended to all adults seeking a better understanding of trust.

[Jennifer Coxon]

However, my one complaint is that I found a couple of errors that could have easily been spotted with diligent editing. I also found that one or two exercises were repeated, and some exercises seemed like questions the author should answer. Consequently, my rating is 4 out of 5 stars. Trust is an overarching matter, so I'd love to recommend this book to every adult. But I especially recommend the book to readers who want to gain a better understanding of trust.

Trust is a very important thing to have and it varies in type, which I'm glad the author has picked up on. It is disappointing when silly errors like repeated exercises aren’t picked up though.

Thanks for a great review.

[Baggett Yori]

As a prospective reader, "Trusting People: Security & Comfort Vs Risks & Pain" by Guy De Furia seems like a valuable resource for anyone looking to navigate the complexities of trust in various aspects of life. The author's expertise, demonstrated through clear explanations and practical exercises, appears to provide a solid foundation for understanding and building trust in interpersonal relationships. Well done on this well-expressed review.

[Amanda Kenneth]

In "Trusting People: Security & Comfort Vs Risks & Pain," Guy De Furia delves into building trust to enhance interpersonal relationships across various spheres of life, addressing productivity and happiness concerns.

[itz maya]

This review of Trusting People: Security & Comfort Vs Risks & Pain by Guy De Furia effectively highlights the book’s exploration of trust in various relationships. De Furia’s expertise is evident in his clear explanations and practical exercises designed to help readers build and repair trust. The book’s structured approach, covering trust in different contexts, is appreciated, though minor editing errors and some repeated exercises slightly detract from its overall polish.

[Jake Shaun]

In "Trusting People: Security & Comfort Vs Risks & Pain," Guy De Furia delves into the crucial role of trust in human relationships and its impact on personal well-being. Addressing the challenges of building trust and recovering from broken trust, De Furia offers practical strategies to enhance self-awareness and develop healthier connections with others.

[Dubem Jecinta]

Your review of Trusting People: Security & Comfort Vs Risks & Pain effectively highlights Guy De Furia's expertise and approach to trust. You clearly appreciate how De Furia breaks down complex concepts into practical advice and exercises. Your mention of how he uses stories to illustrate his points adds depth to your review, and noting the book's comprehensive coverage of different types of trust provides a thorough overview. Your review effectively conveys the book's value in understanding and building trust across various aspects of life. Great job!

[Smart Link]

De Furia’s expertise in the Behavioral Model of Interpersonal Trust shines through in his writing. His ability to simplify complex concepts and present them in an easily understandable manner demonstrates a profound understanding of the subject. This clarity is particularly beneficial for readers seeking to apply the principles of trust to their own lives.

[Priscilla Kurah]

*Trusting People: Security & Comfort Vs Risks & Pain* by Guy De Furia is a comprehensive guide that delves deeply into the dynamics of trust. De Furia’s exploration of how to build and maintain trust in various aspects of life is both insightful and practical. The book’s detailed approach offers valuable strategies for improving interpersonal relationships across different contexts.