Review of They Love You Until You Start Thinking for Yourself

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Yes, indeed, these issues you've pointed out as addressed in this book are core issues eating deep into some nations in the world, and not just Africa. I'm glad the author has used her book to enlighten us more on handling them.
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"They love you until you start thinking for yourself" I learned this truth years ago, ironically, by watching "Buffy the Vampire Slayer". The way Council took little girls, trained and controlled their every move through Watchers and killed them off in Cruciamentum once they matured enough to think for themselves. Nothing new here, just as in racism and other less pleasant sides of "cultural" society. Apologies, I prefer to pass the book, but still congrats on BOTD!
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Monica's memoir uncovers her thoughts on pertinent societal issues. She is a black woman, Nigerian, to be precise. She dislikes the notion that some people are considered a minority and stands against systemic policies that conveniently keep those minorities poor. Readers will learn a lot from Monica's life.
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"They Love You Until You Start Thinking for Yourself" chronicles the life of the author, Monica Omorodion Swaida. Her story is an inspiring memoir that highlights the power of hard work, resilience, and relationships to propel one's life in the direction of their dreams.
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What stands out most is how the author refuses to conform to limiting narratives, encouraging readers to think critically about self-reliance and the structures that shape our lives. It’s not just a personal story; it’s a call to action for anyone who dares to carve their own path.
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The author of this memoir is a free-spirited individual and she made it contagious based on the reviewer. This is a book for ambitious minds. Congrats on BOTD.
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The author recounts her childhood and her life and gives valuable lessons. Her relationship with her father and the unique personalities of her siblings did have an impact on her. How did she perceive and respond to situations? She gives growth tips too.
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The author's life details how her relationship with her family members helped shape who she is now. She discusses socio-economic loopholes that are not beneficial. I feel this book provides motivation and offers great self-help tips.
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I appreciated how the book dedicated a chapter to each stage of the author's life. This organized approach made the book engaging and easy to follow.
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This is an elegantly composed and clever survey! Obviously They Love You Until You Begin Thinking for Yourself isn't simply an individual journal yet in addition a provocative book that challenges cultural standards and supports confidence. I value how you featured Monica Omorodion Swaidas refusal to take on a casualty attitude and how she rather embraces a mentality of assurance and achievement.

Your point about the divisions in the public eye by race, class, and abundance is especially striking. The case of government gifts making reliance is a main problem that many individuals wrestle with, and it's reviving to see a creator address such points without glossing over them. The way that the book additionally offers speculation and self-development counsel makes it much more significant.

It's perfect to hear that the book was well-altered, with only one mistake found, and that you found it so significant that you'd peruse it once more. Your ideal rating major areas of strength for and clarify that this book is a must-peruse for those hoping to challenge their viewpoints and push past cultural limits. Gratitude for sharing such a smart survey
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This is an elegantly composed and clever survey! Obviously They Love You Until You Begin Thinking for Yourself isn't simply an individual journal yet in addition a provocative book that challenges cultural standards and supports confidence. I value how you featured Monica Omorodion Swaidas refusal to take on a casualty attitude and how she rather embraces a mentality of assurance and achievement.

Your point about the divisions in the public eye by race, class, and abundance is especially striking. The case of government gifts making reliance is a main problem that many individuals wrestle with, and it's reviving to see a creator address such points without glossing over them. The way that the book additionally offers speculation and self-development counsel makes it much more significant.

It's perfect to hear that the book was well-altered, with only one mistake found, and that you found it so significant that you'd peruse it once more. Your ideal rating major areas of strength for and clarify that this book is a must-peruse for those hoping to challenge their viewpoints and push past cultural limits. Gratitude for sharing such a smart survey
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Monica Omorodion Swaida’s memoir stands out for its honest and thought-provoking exploration of societal divisions and personal empowerment, encouraging readers to challenge limiting beliefs and take control of their own success. Nice review.
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Here it's Monica who is narrating a story of her life journey.She came from the family of nine children, she was third in her family. Her mother was shop owner and father was investigator. She's telling us about how she was raised and distinct challenges she encountered and everything she taught by her parents, that she still apply even today.
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Post by mrlefty0706 »

Hi @Blue N Sky, I just read your comments on the official review of "They Love You Until You Start Thinking for Yourself" by Monica Omorodion Swaida and I appreciate your comments. The fact that the author shared her own experiences really made this a "from the heart" story. Thank you. @Mrlefty0706
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I've been wanting to read this one, and your review definitely pushed me to go look it up to add to my TBR
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