Did reading this book affect your understanding of immigration and cultural adjustment?

[Melisa Jane]

This is a discussion topic for the February 2025 Book of the Month, "They Love You Until You Start Thinking for Yourself" by Monica Omorodion Swaida.

Did reading "They Love You Until You Start Thinking for Yourself" by Monica Omorodion Swaida affect your understanding of immigration and cultural adjustment?

[Annika porter]

No. I thought Monica's story was an ultra-specific example of her experience with immigration. However, I think this is a rather unique experience that not all immigrants are going through. While hard work and dedication may have worked out for Swaida, a lot of immigrants face many more challenges and hardships than Swaida and her family had to endure. I think this book makes some broad assumptions about all immigration given the author's positive experience and success. I think this can be harmful as the author advocates for political policies that would actively harm and hinder other immigrants in similar positions to her.

[Charles Benson]

Monica Omorodion Swaida’s memoir offers an unfiltered look at the immigrant experience, capturing the struggle between cultural expectations and personal growth. Her reflections on the ‘japa’ journey reveal the resilience needed to thrive in a new world, making this a compelling read for anyone navigating identity and belonging.